tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21691980808811265442024-03-14T03:36:46.118-07:00Jackie the Happy SissyA happy and cheerful sissy shares insights, stories and advice from her own experience and the wisdom of the women in her life.Jackie Goodsissyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17633744669036305300noreply@blogger.comBlogger50125truetag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2169198080881126544.post-39854285545827819482014-11-02T07:14:00.004-08:002014-11-02T07:14:48.249-08:00Miss Barbara Sets The Record Straight - Miss Barbara On The Future of Sexual Politics<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhZvvDm4ZEpckwDv3ls5cWDV9rDEI2Vh9SKQ2KXBeVzEKU2IiSkpyRBlA7-ULld3uaXWUVWA0IinExVtSEzyKSEgcZ7k8mxpme2oHVMRb4J3oh6tmzcknt0qg_w0avs7k-_8aWQWfIPlqs/s1600/ModernMarriage.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhZvvDm4ZEpckwDv3ls5cWDV9rDEI2Vh9SKQ2KXBeVzEKU2IiSkpyRBlA7-ULld3uaXWUVWA0IinExVtSEzyKSEgcZ7k8mxpme2oHVMRb4J3oh6tmzcknt0qg_w0avs7k-_8aWQWfIPlqs/s1600/ModernMarriage.jpg" height="200" width="178" /></a>This little entry is based on small talk between Miss Barbara and me over dinner a short time ago. Just a normal American couple having dinner at a mid-scale local restaurant, except for our conversation. Miss Barbara expounded at length on her ideas about sexual politics in human society. I put my interpretation of her ideas together in writing just for fun. She read my summation and liked it even though she warned that alcohol might have contributed to some of the more extreme ideas. And the truth is, as much as I love her thinking, I can see a few problems. But either way, she allowed me to publish it so here it is...<br /><br />First, at least half of all males, maybe up to seventy-five percent or so, will have no expectation of having sex. By "sex" I mean ejaculating into a woman's vagina especially when there is a possibility of pregnancy. It is easiest if these males just understand and accept that their penis will never enter a vagina. Most or all of these men will be feminized before the opportunity even arises so it will be quite natural for them to have no expectation of sex. <br /><br />Feminization will start early in many cases. There are a lot of boys for which it is obvious they should not be allowed to reproduce. When feminization begins will be determined by women along the way during a boy's life. And of course, gender-based violence against women will be eradicated. Any aggressiveness in this area will mean the immediate loss of masculine privileges and intense, possibly chemical, feminization. This filtering of males can be calibrated such that by adulthood half or more of males will have been feminized beyond any expectation that they might have sex with women. <br /><br />Marriage will change and indeed end as we know it. For now I'll still call it marriage. Sissies will be the most sought-after marriage partners. They will be loyal to their Mistress and bring value to the union in the form of earning potential, home making skills, engaging personalities, etc. Most sissies will be married and women without good sissies will always be on the lookout for one. The remaining un-feminized males, real men, will be encouraged not to marry, they will be encouraged to breed, and rewarded for doing so. When their reproduction rate diminishes below a certain level, they will then be feminized and join their peers. <br /><br />Some social structures will have to be developed to bring the men together with women for reproduction as well as recreational sex. Babies will be cared for by sissies, drugs will be developed that will allow them to lactate and breast feed. Women will carry on their professional and personal lives as unimpeded as possible by the burdens of child bearing and caring. <br /><br />So there it is, my quick summation of Miss Barbara's vision of the future of Female/male relations. Utopian maybe, but having a vision in mind gives you something to work toward. I hope you enjoyed this window into how Miss Barbara and I plot the overthrow of the masculine power structure over drinks and a nice meal. Thanks for reading and stay Happy Sissies! <br />
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After a recent review of my blog and online activities, Miss Barbara has decided that some changes are in order. I took a break from writing (well, blog writing anyway) as we discussed ideas and possibilities. I touched on some of this in my last entry and now I want to continue the "Miss Barbara Sets the Record Straight" series with a shocking bit of news of which I only recently became aware. Namely, Miss Barbara seriously considered divorcing Jackie at two points during Jackie's sissification. <br />
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Miss Barbara was much more upset than I realized over the emasculating things she found out about her "husband" after stumbling across "his" batch of hidden panties and things. She wasn't sure if I had a lover, or if I was gay, or whatever. But one thing she did know, the "man" she married had secrets. As she handled the situation, talking to her mother and confronting me, she found that I did not have a lover, that I was not gay, but that I did have secrets. Secrets that, once revealed, shed light on nagging questions she had about me and our marriage. Questions like: Why does he like to be alone so much? Why is his sex drive so low? Why is his performance so poor when we do have sex? The answers became clear when she found out that I expended most of my sexual energy by masturbating in panties. <br />
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That was the first time Miss Barbara almost left. She felt betrayed, hurt, confused and rejected. And on top of it all, she was sexually frustrated and unsatisfied. Luckily for us, for me, her mother calmed her down and helped her regain a feeling of control and purpose, beginning with the idea of putting me in panties to see what would happen. As I mentioned last time, this exposed a serious masturbation habit which ultimately led to my systematic feminization. <br />
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But it was this feminization project that led Miss Barbara to consider divorce a second time. She loves men, thought she had married a man, but her "man" was happily shedding his masculinity and becoming a sissy. In addition, it was soon decided that sex with women would be off-limits for me, a condition which I actually accepted, but which Miss Barbara feared would mean permanent sexual frustration. It was almost too much for her and she told her mother that she was again thinking about leaving me. And again, Miss Carolyn saved the day and the marriage. <br />
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She pointed out advantages to having a sissy hubby that Miss Barb had overlooked. For instance, Miss Barbara (and Miss Carolyn too, for that matter) hate doing housework, so I could be trained as a maid. As for sexual satisfaction, she reminded Miss Barbara that, when given the choice, I picked sissyhood over manhood, even knowing that Miss Barb did not have sex with sissies. At that point I had abdicated my responsibility as a husband, giving Miss Barbara complete freedom in her sexual pursuits. She took her mother's advice and continued with the project. <br />
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Miss Barbara quickly came into her own after that. She grew in confidence and competence as she exercised her will and reshaped our lives in the image she chose. Recently Miss Barbara told me that staying with me was the best decision she ever made, which made me so happy! <br />
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So, dear sissy friends, thanks for reading once again, I will try to not wait so long next time! Until then, be happy sissies and say "Hi!" if you get a chance. <span id="goog_537798320"></span><span id="goog_537798321"></span>Jackie Goodsissyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17633744669036305300noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2169198080881126544.post-4364638413556532702014-04-01T20:17:00.000-07:002014-04-01T20:17:34.140-07:00Miss Barbara Sets The Record Straight - First, Jackie Was Not Always A SissyMiss Barbara has spent some time lately looking over my blog and other online activities. She has some ideas about direction and content that should soon become apparent. In the meantime however, she wants me to stress a few points where she feels like focus might have slipped a little. <br /><br />First, Miss Barbara wants me to clarify that her sissy Jackie (me!) was not always a sissy. Unlike many that are sissies from birth, Jackie began her journey to sissyhood as a chronic masturbator that wore articles of women's clothing, meaning panties, for sexual excitement. Jackie is a sissy only because Miss Barbara decided that is what she should be and took steps to bring it about. <br /><br />Admittedly, Miss Barbara's and my recall varies, so hers is correct. One thing is for sure, my identity as a man began to falter the day she confronted me with her discovery of my collection of panties. She had found them a few days earlier when we were packing for a hurricane evacuation. What I didn't know until later was that she had talked it over with her mother in the meantime. They decided that I was probably a secret crossdresser. It turned out that Miss Carolyn had some insight because, as she informed Miss Barb for the first time, her late husband, Miss Barb's father, was a crossdresser. They decided that they would start small and see what happened. <br /><br />Soon after that I was wearing panties most of the time. My feeling was that I took to wearing panties so easily because I was a sissy at heart. Miss Barbara says no, it was because I got sexually excited by wearing panties which fueled my masturbation. Judging by the number of times she subsequently caught me jacking off in panties, she is no doubt correct. <br /><br />Upon further discussions with her mother about my behavior, they decided I was probably not a crossdresser after all, just a chronic masturbator wearing panties for excitement. This insight also explained other shortcomings, mainly in the area of physical affection, that Miss Barbara had noted. Together they decided that my lack of control and neglect of husbandly duties was unacceptable and Miss Barbara should take control of the situation. If she failed, so would our marriage. It was during these talks that Miss Barbara and Miss Carolyn determined my future as a sissy. <br /><br />Their plan had two aspects: One was to continue and increase the pace of feminization and see if I would go along with it, knowing that if I did so it would probably be for the sexual thrill. And two, if I did go along with the feminization, they would seek to break the association between dressing up and sexual excitement and masturbation. <br /><br />Needless to say, I did go along with it, and it probably was in large part for the sexual thrill, although it is my feeling that I was already a sissy by that point. Soon I was sleeping in nighties, had no male undies at all, and Jackie the sissy maid had begun her duties. And then, using various techniques, some of which I describe in other blog entries, Miss Barbara did indeed weaken and break the link between dressing up and sexual activity. From that point on, I was not dressing for masturbatory reasons, I was truly and irreversibly a feminized sissy. <br /><br />Well, that's it for now Happy Sissies, I hope you enjoyed the clarification of my sissy history. Thanks for reading and contact me and say "Hi" if you get a chance. See you next time and stay Happy, Sissies! Jackie Goodsissyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17633744669036305300noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2169198080881126544.post-50354821230680123642014-03-15T14:06:00.003-07:002014-03-15T14:06:33.523-07:00Jackie Goodsissy Comes to Twitter! Hello all my sissy friends!<br />
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I just wanted to make a quick post to say that I have jumped into the 21st Century by getting into Twitter! I do hope any of my sissy friends or whoever else that uses Twitter will follow me so I can follow them back. I hope to meet and keep in touch with as many Tweeting sissies as possible!<br />
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My name in Twitter is<b> Jackie Goodsissy</b> (big surprise!) and my handle thingy is <b>@JGoodsissy</b><br />
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Is it just me or does "Tweeting" sound like something a sissy would do?<br />
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Thanks for reading, Happy Sissies! Jackie Goodsissyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17633744669036305300noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2169198080881126544.post-51089524324500273402014-03-04T19:31:00.001-08:002014-03-04T20:20:37.383-08:00Questions Sissies Ask - Why Can't I Feel Pretty? <table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="float: left; margin-right: 1em; text-align: left;"><tbody>
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I forgot when this came up with an online sissy friend, probably a year or so ago. This sissy felt like (s)he looked too masculine and was afraid that dressing up just made her look silly. As usual, I paraphrase our talk as a "Dear Abby"-type exchange. <br />
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Dear Happy Sissy,<br />
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I love dressing up, I love being a sissy! Ever since I was a teen I have loved the act of sliding into sexy panties, the feel of a luxurious nightgown, the silky sensation of a slip, anything feminine or girly has always been a weakness of mine. This continued into adulthood and I have quite a collection, mostly lingerie. I can't dress freely but I do get plenty of chances while traveling or when wife is out. <br />
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The trouble is that I don't look like a sissy. My frame is masculine, I've been referred to as a "fireplug." I also have a lot of hair, body and otherwise, that is jet black. Sometimes I will be enjoying myself lounging in a pretty nightie and then spot myself in a mirror and the sissy mood evaporates. I see a hairy guy in a girly gown and I am afraid that I just look ridiculous. <br />
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I know my problem is small-time compared to some other sissies but it still sometimes bothers me. My wife has said that I am too manly looking and should give up my girly habits entirely, and at times I can't help but feel she might be right. I wish I naturally had a more feminine look but I don't. I love the sissy feelings when I dress up but then I sometimes feel silly, and I hate that. What should I do? Am I too masculine to be a sissy? I love so much feeling like a sissy, but why can't I feel pretty? <br />
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Signed, <br />
A Sissy in a Man's Body<br />
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Dear A Sissy in a Man's Body,<br />
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I am so glad you wrote to me with your question. I have one primary message for you and it is this: Every sissy that I know, myself included, feels exactly the same way at times, if not all the time! We as sissies adore women, worship femininity, and want to emulate feminine ideals as much as possible. Unfortunately, there is a sometimes-rude reality that all sissies confront: We are still men! Or at least, we are still male, if you know what I mean. <br />
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One trait common to all sissies is that we want to feel feminine, we want to feel pretty. Another is that we all feel like we fall short of the feminine ideal, and the truth is, we do fall short. Of course we do, we are not women. But another truth is, women feel the same way! They have a feminine ideal in their mind too, and they also feel that they fall short, and the truth is, they fall short too. The reason is, sissy or woman, it is impossible to live up to an ideal. <br />
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It is fine to have an ideal in mind, it is fine to try to live up to that ideal. Just know that you will never be able to. An ideal will always be out of reach by its very nature. My advice to you, dear sissy, is the same as it would be to anybody, women included: Acknowledge that you have this ideal in mind, that it will always be unreachable, and that it is still fun to try! <br />
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So don't worry about being too masculine to be a sissy, you are a sissy whether you like it or not. Luckily you do like it! So dress up in the prettiest, frilliest, sissiest things you can find. Strut around like a beauty queen and luxuriate in the feminine mystique. If you need to feel more feminine, do something new. Go shopping and buy a dress, shave your legs, anything new and feminine. And if you must, don't look in the mirror. <br />
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Love,<br />
Jackie (The Happy Sissy!) <br />
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P.S. - I mentioned not looking in the mirror but really I think you ought to look in the mirror. Even if you don't see the woman you would like to see, you still yourself as a sissy, and it never hurts to be reminded. Jackie Goodsissyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17633744669036305300noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2169198080881126544.post-24762612190999451262014-01-18T16:00:00.000-08:002014-03-04T19:56:54.440-08:00Questions Sissies Ask - Are Sissies Born Or Are Sissies Made? <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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This one goes back to a conversation I had around the middle of last year with a sissy friend. We touched on the interesting question of when a male actually becomes a sissy. Once again, I have paraphrased our talk as a "Dear Abby" letter and response. <br />
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Dear Happy Sissy,<br />
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I don't feel like I had a chance at being a man. Even my earliest memories involve wearing my sister's clothes and playing with her dolls. Luckily I had parents, or at least a mother, that was not very bothered. However as I got older I got the impression that it was shameful and I suppressed it. I'm sure it is was assumed that I grew out of it. Well I had not and I never did, even though I tried. <br />
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Throughout my teen and young adult years I was outwardly much like any other young man. But whenever I got the chance I would dress up in whatever I could find, borrow (by which I mean steal), or on occasion buy. Ultimately I got married and of course my wife caught me. I threw away all my stuff (again) and promised not to dress up anymore. She caught me again within a year. Now I am a closet sissy even though I tried to steer straight and be a man. I just love dressing up so much and it feels so right but I live in fear of the inevitable next time I get caught. <br />
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I can accept my life as a sissy and know that I should tell my wife before she catches me again. But sometimes I wonder, when did I become a sissy? It seems like I have always been a sissy, that I was born this way. Maybe that is why I can't help it. Is that how it was for you? Are sissies born, or made? <br />
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Sometimes Happy Sissy Teri<br />
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Dear Sometimes Happy Sissy Teri,<br />
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I talk to a lot of sissies and I have heard stories like yours soooo many times, and I never get tired of them! So many sissies have told me similar stories that I think that some males are indeed born sissies. Then again, that is not how it was for me, and I have heard many stories more similar to mine as well. <br />
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In my case, I was a man addicted to masturbation that started wearing panties for excitement. Wearing panties became the most exciting way to masturbate and so I expanded on it. But when my wife found my panties and things I still considered myself just a man that wore panties for fun. Miss Barbara steered me toward sissiness until I realized that I am not just a man that likes to wear panties, I really am a sissy! <br />
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My point is that it doesn't matter terribly much when a man realizes that he is not a man anymore, or never was, and that he is a sissy. The important thing is that, once he even suspects he is a sissy, she almost certainly is. She should embrace herself as a sissy and find as many ways to express it as possible. And then keep finding ways and having sissy adventures until she doesn't even remember what it is like to be a man anymore. <br />
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In your case Teri, you are going to have to tell your wife, and soon. If she catches you again she will be more upset that you are a chronic liar than that you are a sissy, and your marriage could be over. I know and hate to mention that it could be over anyway, but my guess is that she already knows you are a sissy, this just confirms it, and you can get on with the next phase of your marriage. <br />
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Good luck sissy Teri! I think things will work out so you can sign "Always Happy Sissy Teri." <br />
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Love,<br />
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Jackie (The Happy Sissy!) Jackie Goodsissyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17633744669036305300noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2169198080881126544.post-10307397805848619542013-12-10T20:05:00.001-08:002013-12-10T20:05:51.697-08:00Questions Sissies Ask - Is There Any Going Back? <a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-JOO8ayUvPOc/UqfkW3ZZBjI/AAAAAAAAAvI/sl9YTYNeFK8/s1600/ID27329_7.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="200" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-JOO8ayUvPOc/UqfkW3ZZBjI/AAAAAAAAAvI/sl9YTYNeFK8/s200/ID27329_7.jpg" width="187" /></a>Last night I was chatting with a sissy friend at Club Sissy (hi Cindy!) and we had a nice discussion during which some questions came up. I've taken the liberty of paraphrasing our conversation into a "Dear Abby"-style letter and following it up with my thoughts in the form of an answer. Sound like fun? I hope so, here goes... <br /><br />Dear Happy Sissy, <br /><br />I have secretly been a sissy for a long time but now I am on the cusp of a life-change. My wife will soon be fully aware that I am a sissy and that I want only to serve her. I am a closet sissy but the door is opening and I will soon be exposed.<br />
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First, my wife found my sissy clothes. She did not seem too upset or even very surprised, but I made the mistake of not talking about it and letting her assume that I got rid of my sissy things. Soon after, I actually told her that I want to serve her, but still didn't confess my sissy-hood. The last straw is my shortcomings in the bedroom. I know my sexual performance has been unsatisfactory for some time, but I did everything I could to avoid the issue. It can be avoided no longer. After a recent frustrating encounter, she told me of her dissatisfaction and said we might have to "make other arrangements." She obviously no longer considers me a satisfactory husband. Logically, the next step is obvious: admit to her that I am not a real man, I am a sissy and as such will have to support any "other arrangements" she deems necessary. <br /><br />The problem is fear. I have no doubt she will accept me as her sissy, but I am afraid of the life changes it will bring about. So fearful that I sometimes think I should deny my sissy nature, act like a real man, and try to be a good husband. I don't know if such a thing is possible, but I can't help thinking about it. Sometimes it seems easier to go back than to plunge into the unknowns of sissy life. <br /><br />What do you think Jackie? Can a sissy go back to being a man? Is it worth even considering? I feel my destiny is as a sissy, but I am still afraid. Is there anything I can do to ease my anxiety about coming changes? <br /><br />Please help and sign me, <br />wanna-be-Happy-Sissy cindy <br /><br />----------------------------------------------------<br /><br />Dear wanna-be-Happy-Sissy Cindy, <br /><br />First of all, congratulations! I talk to a lot of sissies that would love to be in your Mary Janes. Unfortunately, they feel stuck in the walk-in with little hope of emerging into the light of the vanity mirror. First I will offer my advice and then touch on your questions. <br />
<br />My advice is for you to walk out of that closet in your best outfit, confess your sissyhood, and submit to your wife's service as soon as possible. You ask the question, "Can a sissy go back to being a man?" I think the answer is contained in your line, "...I sometimes think I should deny my sissy nature, act like a real man, and try to be a good husband." Do you see it? You know your nature is that of a sissy and the closest you can come to being a real man is just an act. That is no way for a person to live. To be happy, and to make your wife happy, you must be true to your nature as a sissy. There is no going back, you are and always will be a sissy. <br /><br />As for your anxiety, I'm sure a lot of it concerns the "other arrangements" mentioned by your wife. That is totally understandable, but there is nothing you can do about it except maybe become a super stud in bed. My guess is that is not an option. You could deny your sissy self and try to be a real man, but your wife will remain unhappy, unsatisfied, and ultimately probably leave you. Or, you can take the leap (just be careful in those heels!), submit to her as a sissy, and your relationship has a chance to reach levels of excitement and satisfaction most couples can only dream about. <br /><br />But the best thing you have going for you is... She already knows you are a sissy! She found your sissy panties, you already told her you want to serve her, and she is aware of your shortcomings in the bedroom. My guess is that she is just watching with amusement as you struggle to come to terms with your true nature and the direction of your marriage. <br /><br />So, put on your big girl panties and submit to your wife. You are ready and she is ready. Plus, once you do it, a lot of your anxiety will evaporate. That is because, once you are officially her sissy, everything else will be up to her! <br /><br />Congratulations again, you are well on your way to being a Happy Sissy! <br /><br />Love, <br />Jackie (the Happy Sissy!) Jackie Goodsissyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17633744669036305300noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2169198080881126544.post-66635496522825617612013-10-28T09:05:00.001-07:002013-10-29T07:38:36.301-07:00These Are a Few of My Favorite (Sissy!) Things<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Hi sissies! If you have been following my blog, you know I have been raising sissy visibility, and having a lot of fun, at <a href="http://amazon.com/" target="_blank">Amazon.com</a>. Oh, a quick update, my review of the <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Vanity-Fair-Womens-Perfectly-Nouveau/dp/B0006I3Q5C/ref=sr_1_1?s=apparel&ie=UTF8&qid=1372561079&sr=1-1&keywords=vanity+fair+lace+nouveau" target="">Vanity Fair Lace Nouveau</a> panties now has 24 "helpful" ratings! It is by far the highest rated review and very visible on the product page. Thanks everybody!<br />
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Well, now I have created a public list, which they call a "Listmania" list, called <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Jackie-s-Happy-Sissy-List/lm/R12EITCHTE8LM1/ref=cm_lm_byauthor_title_full" target="_blank">Jackie's Happy Sissy List</a>. It is a fun list of various products which I picked out to help happy sissies be even happier sissies! Many of the products I have or use myself, some I might want to try, others are just fun sissy products. I have also been reading sissy literature from Amazon on my Kindle so I might be putting recommended reading materials for sissies too. <br />
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Let me know what you think of my list. Any ideas about what I just must add to make a sissy happy? Once again, here is the link to the list:<br />
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One thing, I haven't seen a good way to find the Listmania lists at Amazon, so it may be that nobody will be able to find it while just browsing around. But at least my sissy friends and followers will be able to see it!<br />
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So thanks for reading to all of my sissy friends, I love you all so much! Until next time, enjoy (sissy) life and be Happy Sissies!<br />
<br />Jackie Goodsissyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17633744669036305300noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2169198080881126544.post-76266773231399010572013-09-20T16:54:00.003-07:002013-09-20T16:54:43.611-07:00Just A Worthless Sissy? - I Don't Think So! <a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-c-gaAk0D4Rs/Ujze7I6GzFI/AAAAAAAAAqE/L6F0NevmUTs/s1600/Blog_sissy.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-c-gaAk0D4Rs/Ujze7I6GzFI/AAAAAAAAAqE/L6F0NevmUTs/s320/Blog_sissy.jpg" width="161" /></a>In the online world of sissies I come across the phrase "just a worthless sissy" a lot. Something like, "I accepted that I was just a worthless sissy," or "She tells me that I am just a worthless sissy." When I read such things I always want to say, "You may be a sissy, but you are not worthless! She needs to know that, and more importantly, you need to know that!" <br /><br />First and foremost, if you are a male, and sissies are males (sad but true, I know), it still doesn't mean you have to be a man to be of value. In fact, given the damage male domination has inflicted on society in general and women in particular, I think a sissy is more valuable to society than a real man! Plus, the sissy can be even more important depending on where she lives. For instance, every sissy living in a strict, male-dominated society such as India, Saudi Arabia, Egypt, Indonesia, or the Philippines (all places from which I know sissies) is critical in spreading the cause of feminization. <br /><br />I understand that the "worthless sissy" sentiment might be a natural response. Natural to a wife that has discovered her husband, someone she formally regarded as masculine, dressed up in lingerie and masturbating into panties. She feels shocked and betrayed, remembers the nagging, unspoken questions that lurk in her mind, "Why doesn't he express the interest in sex that he used to? Why, when we do have sex, is his energy and endurance always so low? Where did those panties under the bed come from?" Suddenly her questions are answered and the image of her husband shatters as she catches him dressed up and cumming in a pair of panties. "I thought I was married to a man but now I find out he's just a worthless sissy!" Who can blame her if this is her first reaction? <br /><br />The "worthless sissy" sentiment might even come from a sissy herself, a sissy raised with society's ideal of what a "real man" should be, but who can't live up to it. He tries, sometimes even throwing away every item of female clothes he has been hiding, but he just can't do it. Soon he finds himself dressed up in pretty lingerie, panties soaked again. A male in this situation might think, "I tried to be a real man, but I just can't. I guess I'm just a worthless sissy!" <br /><br />These reactions may be understandable, but there is just one problem... they are wrong! Hopefully the wife will read my series about what a woman should do if she catches her man in panties (<a href="http://thehappysissy.blogspot.com/2011/01/caught-your-husband-in-panties-now-what.html" target="_blank">Caught Your Husband in Panties?</a>). If she does, she will see that finding out she has a sissy hubby is the best thing that could happen! How worthless will she think her sissy is when she is inspecting her spotless kitchen as the sissy stands by, eyes down? When she realizes that she is a queen in her home and her word is law? When it really sinks in that she can have any kind of marriage she wants? If the woman will take charge, be patient and understanding, and shape the sissy to her will, she will see that a sissy is far from worthless. <br /><br />And if you are a sissy and ever find yourself thinking that you are "just a worthless sissy," well stop! Do not purge. Do not throw your sissy treasures away, it won't help. Sissy things are not what make you a sissy. You will still be a sissy after the things are gone and soon you will be buying more. If you feel worthless, find a way to be a better sissy! Practice your makeup, clean the bathroom, buy some nice panties, you can always do something to make yourself into a happy sissy. <br /><br />Above all just remember, in this rough, male-dominated (for now) world, the sissy may not be the "average male," but she is the average male of the future, feminized world. Today's sissy is ahead of her time, less common and more special, and far more valuable as a result. <br /><br />So sissies, hold you head up and be proud! Unless, that is, you are standing before your Mistress, in which case you should probably keep your eyes down... but be proud! Sissies are not worthless at all! <br /><br />So thanks again for reading. Get in touch in any of the usual ways. Leave a comment if you feel like it. Link my blog in your blog and I will return the favor. And above all (you know it's coming)... be Happy Sissies! <br />
<br />Jackie Goodsissyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17633744669036305300noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2169198080881126544.post-90134063972289015692013-08-23T21:22:00.000-07:002013-08-23T21:22:20.925-07:00Panties Reviewed on Amazon.com - Sissy Review Takes the Top Spot! <br />
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Thanks to all of you sissies that rated the review! I think there were only two "helpfuls" when I posted that blog entry. If you check out the page you will see that the next review after mine also has twelve "helpfuls" so we barely passed it, in fact it is a tie.<br />
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If any sissy (or anybody else for that matter!) has an Amazon account and has not rated the review as "helpful" it would be a great help if you could add your vote. You could help make sure an open, honest and most importantly, un-apologetically sissy review of these panties remains at the top for all to see. <br />
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If you want to join the fun, post some of our own sissy reviews of this or any other feminine product and let your sissy sisses know so we can rate them up. Soon all the sissy perspectives popping up will show people, especially women, that sissies are among them! And, as sissies, isn't that right where we want to be, among the women? Hehehe...<br />
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Thanks for reading and get in touch through the comments or the various other ways available. And most of all, be Happy Sissies! Jackie Goodsissyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17633744669036305300noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2169198080881126544.post-67268060472058555462013-07-19T22:16:00.002-07:002013-07-19T22:16:40.728-07:00Feminization Technique ala Miss Barbara - How She Tamed Her Sissy's Naughty HabitI was just reflecting on the wisdom of Miss Barbara and the effectiveness of one of her techniques from my early sissy training. The problem she faced was my inappropriate and irresponsible masturbation. Miss Barbara allowed me such things as wearing panties, wearing nighties to bed, and doing household chores dressed in a maid outfit when she was away from home. The trouble was, she continued to find inappropriate porn and worse, catch me by surprise in the act of masturbating to material that was not proper for a sissy. What was a beginning Mistress to do with her undisciplined fledgling sissy? <br /><br />The answer she came up with, possibly with help from her mother, Miss Carolyn, was something I call "enforced proper masturbation." The problem as she identified it was this: Dressing up was sexually stimulating and I was tempted to masturbate as soon as I was left alone. Even worse, I would habitually use heterosexual man-on-woman pornography of a kind that is not appropriate for a sissy to be viewing. Her strategy for controlling the problem was to break the cycle. <br /><br />I still remember the first time she used the technique. She had me sit on the couch and she told me that she was going shopping for a while. She told me to get dressed up because she had some chores for me. I was to have them done before she got home, and remain dressed until she approved my work. I was excited because I thought I would be masturbating soon. She seemed to read my mind and told me that she wanted me working, not "jacking off to some kind of porn." I told her that of course I was going to work and not jack off, but I knew it was a lie. <br /><br />"I know," she said, "because you are going to do it now before I go." I was thrown off guard by that and asked what she meant. She said that to help me resist temptation I would masturbate, under supervision, before she left the house. "Right now, right in your panties." She had me take everything off except my panties and do it right there on the couch, while she was getting ready. She clinically observed as I finished, wetting my panties as she had said. "Good sissy. Now go get dressed so I can go." <br /><br />All of a sudden I wasn't sure I wanted to dress up and clean house. But I knew I had to, otherwise she would think that the only reason I dressed up was for the sexual thrill. I shoved my leaky, wet little thing into my messy panties and went to the bedroom to get dressed. When I came back down the hall in my maid dress, complete with a full slip, girdle, tights and sensible shoes, I wasn't sexually excited. In fact, I felt embarrassed and emasculated. <br /><br />Miss Barbara gave her approval of my outfit, the list of chores, and off she went shopping. I did the chores thoroughly and efficiently, was not tempted to masturbate, and felt more demaled than ever when she got home and had to approve my work before I could change back to male clothes. <br /><br />In other words, her technique worked like a charm! Over the years she used this technique with many variations to gain control of my masturbation addiction and direct my energies into becoming a better sissy. It taught me that the purpose of dressing up was not for sexual excitement, but because I was a sissy! It also redirected my tastes in porn to areas more appropriate for the sissy. <br /><br />I'm not sure if this is the first article in a series, or just a stand-alone. Either way, thanks for reading! And stay Happy Sissies! Jackie Goodsissyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17633744669036305300noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2169198080881126544.post-87981501366897972722013-06-29T20:09:00.001-07:002013-06-29T20:09:05.716-07:00Panties Reviewed on Amazon.com - The Sissy PerspectiveYou may know from prior posts that the Vanity Fair Lace Nouveau Brief is my favorite kind of panties. They are comfy and well-fitting and best of all, when you buy them at the store, there is no doubt that you are buying them for yourself. No man buys a woman panties like the Lace Nouveau brief.<br />
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Anyway, I posted a review of the Vanity Fair Lace Nouveau Brief at Amazon.com. If you check it out you will see that the review was unabashedly from the sissy perspective. I mean, it's titled, "Great panties for the sissy!" after all. Here is the link to the Vanity Fair Lace Nouveau Brief product page:<br />
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Currently, I see my review as the second one down the right-hand column. Here's a link to the review:<br />
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In the review I bring up both sissies in panties, and women putting their men in panties. What do you think? Does that help raise the visibility of sissies and superior women? If you think so, be sure to click the "Yes" button for "Was this review helpful?" If enough people tag it as "helpful" it will move into an even more visible place on the product page. <br />
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Even better, after you click "Yes" on my review, post a review of your own for these panties, or another product (nightie, bra, etc.) from the sissy perspective. If you do, be sure to let me know and I'll rate your review! <br />
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Thanks for reading. Have fun, and always be Happy Sissies!<br />
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<br />Jackie Goodsissyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17633744669036305300noreply@blogger.com9tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2169198080881126544.post-38223185484507074662013-06-05T15:23:00.000-07:002013-06-05T15:23:13.449-07:00The Feminization of Society Part 5 - What Is A Sissy To Do?Feminine influence is increasing in all areas of society. Among the reasons for this are women increasingly becoming better educated than men and taking positions of authority in government and business, and traditional men being less equipped to excel in the modern world. We could soon see the onset of active feminization policies that will reshape society. How might the sissy fit into a feminized world? Is there anything the individual sissy can do to advance the coming matriarchy? These questions are what I want to talk about in this, the last entry in my series on the feminization of society. <br /><br />As you might guess, sissies are perfectly suited for feminized society. We already regard women to be superior and are willing to submit to their authority in the household. We should be willing to do so in business as well. As society becomes feminized, powerful and influential women will see the value of submissive males as subordinates. Masculine, "alpha males" will be seen as disruptive and uncooperative liabilities. Males displaying feminine inclinations will be recognized as non-threatening and pliable assets. <br /><br />Meanwhile, back at home, this generation of educated, powerful and ambitious women will learn to value a partner that assumes a role traditionally reserved for women, that of "housewife." After a time, she will likely come to demand it. In a society where active feminization is the norm, these women will bring it into the home and begin feminizing their partners to prepare them for the role of "housewife." Sissies are ready to assume this role with minimal friction. <br /><br />
As women become more powerful in their public and social lives, they will naturally extend displays of power and control into their private lives. A submissive and disciplined domestic partner may well become a status symbol and feminization is the perfect symbol of discipline. In addition, displays of control, such as enforced chastity and of power, such as regular pegging, seem destined to become much more common. Here again, we see that the sissy is ready-made to fit into the coming matriarchy. <br /><br />How can sissies help to bring about the matriarchy? The best way I can think of is visibility. The more women are struck by the realization that a male is a sissy, like when she sees him buying panties that no man would buy for a woman, the more she feels her growing influence and power. When she tells her friends, "Guess what I saw today?" the feeling spreads. If one of those friends confides, "Well, my husband is in panties all the time, and he is totally devoted to me!" the more women think to themselves that it might be a good idea for their hubbies. <br /><br />Sissies can create profiles on Victoria's Secret, Amazon or department store sites and write sissy-centric reviews of panties, bras, nighties, dresses, makeup... any traditionally feminine products. Other sissies can comment on the reviews or mark them as "helpful" to increase their visibility (my next blog post will show an example of this). <br /><br />If possible, sissies can "come out" to their wives, girlfriends, or dates. The more adventurous among us can go out dressed up in our sissy best. Even wearing a bra under a t shirt can raise sissy visibility in a subtle way. The important thing is that every little bit helps. I would note here that some might object to sissies "imposing their fetish on unwilling bystanders." My answer to that is that you, as a sissy, have every right to be yourself, just like anybody else, as long as you are not unnecessarily blatant about it. <br /><br />So, to finish up my series on the feminization of society I ask, do you have any other ideas about how sissies can help bring about the coming matriarchy? I would love to hear them! Let me know in the comments or through any of the several ways I can be contacted. And once again, thanks for reading and be happy sissies! Jackie Goodsissyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17633744669036305300noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2169198080881126544.post-61617151236807587082013-04-25T19:58:00.001-07:002013-04-25T19:58:16.025-07:00The Feminization of Society Part 4 - Obstacles to Feminization as Social PolicySo far in this series I have talked about the increasing rate of the feminization of society, why it is a good thing, why feminization should be an explicit social policy, and some examples of how it might be integrated into culture. I think social feminization is the wave of the future, but that doesn't mean there won't be resistance to bringing it about. I'm sure that most if not all sissies would be happy to see feminization as social policy now, but otherwise, what's holding up progress? Well, I can think of several obstacles, but I also see their limitations. <br /><br />First and foremost is, of course, men. Men have been in control of society for a long time. Men are still in control of the most important aspects of most societies. It took a long time to pry the right to vote from exclusively male hands. It took a long time to get to the point where women were not considered the property of men. Even today many men are not comfortable with a female boss or commander. Attitudes are changing but you can be sure that men will resist the feminization of society. <br /><br />Another obstacle to feminization as social policy is, oddly enough, women. Even in today's society many women are instilled with the impression that they need a man to complete them. Whether perceived as a provider, for protection, or any number of roles, women are still too often willing to give up their autonomy for the sake of a man. This state of affairs is changing rapidly as feminization advances but it is likely that there will always be resistance from women that desire the comfort of more traditional roles. <br /><br />There is also the issue of the rate of the adoption of feminization by various societies. Whereas feminization is well in progress and accelerating in the Western world, many less advanced societies have far to go. This is especially true of societies that are governed according to religious principles, in particular Islam. Women in these societies have to overcome obstacles that are almost unimaginable to us. They are denied such basics as voting, education, and driving. They often don't have autonomy, much less equality. But even here there is hope. For instance, Pakistan once had a female prime minister. However, she was assassinated by radical Muslims. <br /><br />These are just a few examples of sources of resistance to feminization of human society the world over. I think the trend to feminization is unstoppable and accelerating, but it is unlikely to ever be complete. There will always be "manly men" for whom feminization does not take effect. There will always be women who desire the more traditional relationship between the sexes. There will always be male-dominated social structures that resist the loss of power and influence. <br /><br />And the truth is, this is okay. There is room for all of these things. The important thing is the balance of power within the culture in which they exist. Men have their uses, as long as they are ultimately under feminine authority. Women can have a traditional relationship with a man, both knowing that the nature of the relationship is directed by the woman. Male-dominated social structures can exist within the larger feminized society, but have no influence outside of their limited domain. We can all live together in a society guided by feminine ideals. <br /><br />Next time I want to conclude this series by bringing things back around to sissies, feminized males. After all, sissies are my main audience! We will talk about how sissies fit into feminized society and how we can help to bring it about. So once again, thanks again for reading! If you get a chance, give a shout (but a suitably restrained, feminine one) through the comments, by email, at Experience Project, or in Club Sissy or Yahoo Messenger chat. Above all, be like me... a Happy Sissy! Jackie Goodsissyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17633744669036305300noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2169198080881126544.post-78946881586848139592013-04-03T16:18:00.000-07:002013-04-03T16:21:22.738-07:00The Feminization of Society Part 3 - Explicit Feminization for the Benefit of SocietyIn the prior articles of this series I talked about my view that our society is becoming feminized, that the rate of feminization is increasing, and why this is a good thing. Now I want to float some ideas about how explicit feminization might be used to shape the society of the future. <br />
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What do I mean by "explicit feminization?" Well, until now the feminization of society has proceeded in an implicit fashion. It has been a natural, organic evolution as opposed to a purposeful, designed policy. For instance, women gaining the right to vote is not generally seen as a step in the feminization of society. Nevertheless, that is exactly what it is, an important and necessary step. The same can be said about women entering the workforce, gaining advanced educations, and assuming positions of authority in business and government. These milestones have advanced society and benefited its members. Upon this realization, it obviously follows that feminization should be official social policy. The word "explicit" means "fully and clearly expressed; leaving nothing implied." Feminization clearly expressed as social policy is what I mean by "explicit feminization." <br />
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How can explicit feminization be implemented as social policy? Let's start with the example of crime. As I mentioned, the prison population of the United States has nine men for every one woman. Clearly, criminals should be feminized in order to reduce recidivism. Feminization should not be viewed as punishment for crime, but as required therapy for criminals. A few ideas: Prisons could be redecorated using color schemes heavy on pinks and pastels. Prison garb could consist of pretty dresses and panties. A prisoner's diet could include testosterone-reducing and estrogen- and progesterone-boosting medications. Sentences could be reduced not for good behavior, but for feminine behavior. The possibilities are endless and new methods and ideas would be developed over time. <br />
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But for the greatest benefit to society, feminization should be the norm, not just an exception used in special cases. Based on the idea that femininity is superior and masculinity is dangerous, feminization should be interwoven throughout society. During childhood, babies might all be dressed in pink; it would be common for boys to wear dresses, nighties, and pretty panties; being called a sissy would carry no negative connotations but be a point of pride. In adolescence, girls might regularly dress up their boyfriends; boys would regularly dress up themselves, and not be shy about going to school or anywhere else in dresses; boys could be cheerleaders and wear short skirts just like the girls; football would fade into memory as a violet, masculine pastime; it would be common for couples attending proms and dances to wear matching gowns. <br />
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Continuing into adulthood, explicit feminization would leave no doubt that femininity is the ideal and masculinity is an almost primitive state. By extension, there would also be no doubt about who leads and shapes society: women. Males, via feminization, would simply be reflecting the feminine ideal. Women would control how much and when they wanted to feminize their men. At their discretion, they could even use estrogen boosters or testosterone blockers as they saw fit. As feminization spread worldwide, crime would plummet and war would fade into the past as would other masculine pursuits. <br />
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I have no illusions that feminization as explicit social policy will even come to pass in the near future, much less achieve the levels outlined here. But I do think it is the way of advanced societies as the future becomes the present. Next time, I want to talk about some of the obstacles to feminization as social policy and why I think these obstacles will be overcome. <br />
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Until then (and I will try to make it sooner this time), thanks again for reading! Get in contact through the comments, by email, at Experience Project, or in Club Sissy or Yahoo Messenger chat and let me know what you think. I always love hearing from my sissy friends. Jackie Goodsissyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17633744669036305300noreply@blogger.com8tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2169198080881126544.post-85889341976115941952013-02-25T15:36:00.001-08:002013-04-03T16:18:47.828-07:00The Feminization of Society Part 2 - How Feminization Creates a Better WorldLike I said in the prior article of this series, the feminization of society has been in progress for a while now and in my opinion the rate of feminization is increasing. Why is this a good thing for society? And, if feminization is such a good thing, how can we accelerate it and put it to use for the benefit of society? <br />
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In truth, I doubt that I need to spend a lot of time going over the benefits of a feminized society in detail. For most who might read this, it is as simple as the fact that we consider women to be superior to men, sissy or otherwise. And if women are superior, then a feminized society is self-evidently superior to one where masculine traits rule. With that in mind, I just want to hit on a few main points. <br />
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The first is crime. Men commit far more crimes of all kinds than women do. The prison population of the United States is weighted toward men by a factor of nine to one! Obviously the more feminized a society becomes, the more beneficial the effect will be on the crime rate. Perhaps this can be seen in the fact that the rates for almost all types of crimes have been declining for the past few decades, the very time period that the feminization rate of society has been increasing. <br />
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Another is war. Violence and territoriality are quintessentially masculine traits. When these attributes are implemented on a societal level they naturally and often lead to conflict between societies. Nurturing, negotiation and cooperation are most often thought of as feminine attributes. On a societal level, these lead to conflict resolution, peace, and advancement for all sides in situations that might otherwise escalate into conflict. As the feminization of society penetrates the area of government, which I expect to happen as the higher education rate for women proceeds, I fully expect that incidents of conflicts between societies will decrease. <br />
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And lastly, the status of women. The impression that women are inferior to men is happily no longer overt in advanced societies in general. But a residual undercurrent is still there. This can easily be seen in the different reactions to little girls that are "boyish" and little boys that are "girly." Boyish girls are called "tomboys" and the term carries no negative connotations. However, girly boys are called "sissies" and the term is almost always used in a derogatory way. This impression is inflicted on children and continues, at least at a subconscious level, into adulthood, where it might be manifested in any number of attitudes or actions. In a fully feminized society, this would not, and will not, be the case. <br />
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These are just a few of the benefits that feminization has for society in general. Next time I want to talk about how feminization of society might be accelerated and how feminization techniques can be used to make improvements in everybody's lives here and now. <br />
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Once again, thanks so much for reading! Let me know of your thoughts in the comments, by email, at Experience Project, or in Club Sissy or Yahoo Messenger chat. Jackie Goodsissyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17633744669036305300noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2169198080881126544.post-7684236239503889532013-02-08T15:00:00.001-08:002013-02-08T15:00:28.243-08:00The Feminization of Society Part 1 - What is Societal Feminization?Lately I have been thinking a lot about something that I think is important to the well-being of civilization: the feminization of society. In this series I want to ponder various aspects of societal feminization, what it is, why I consider it to be important, the progress of feminization and my impression that is accelerating. I also want to suggest that sissies, beyond just participating in, can and should play a larger role in the feminization of society. <br /><br />What do I mean by "feminization of society?" Basically that, when a society that is undergoing feminization, the feminine influence is on the ascendancy and masculine influence is declining. Feminization of a society takes place from two ends of a spectrum. On one end is the empowerment of women. And on the other, the "depowerment" of men. <br /><br />I consider the feminization of Western society to be well under way. It started slowly, has suffered setbacks, but has been accelerating in recent years. Women had been fighting for the vote and the ability to run for office long before August of 1920, but that is when the 19th Amendment was passed, and it seems as good a time as any to be considered the beginning of the feminization of American society. The changes since then have been nothing short of revolutionary. <br /><br />Women used to be "second class citizens," subject to the will of men, economically dependent, absent from the workplace or in subservient positions, undereducated and considered adept only at housekeeping and mothering. Now women are fully integrated into society, often completely independent of any man, make up over half of the workforce, and are gaining college degrees at a much higher rate than men. On the "feminization of society spectrum" that I mentioned earlier, this is the "empowerment of women" side. I am not saying that the process is complete, but the change in the balance of power has been profound. <br /><br />The education aspect is especially significant. Today, over sixty percent of college degrees go to women. If the trends keep up, two out of three or even more will go to women in the near future. This is critical because these educated women will be the workplace superiors of their less-educated male peers. Women will soon run the major businesses and corporations, not to mention the government, if this trend keeps up. This change will be the major contributor to the "depowerment of men" end of the societal feminization spectrum. <br /><br />So you see, the feminization of society is well underway and shows no signs of slowing. In fact, there is every reason to believe that it will accelerate as educated women assume positions of power in the coming years. Next time I want to talk more about why the feminization of society is important on my way to ultimately tying sissies into the overall trend toward feminization and our role in it. <br /><br />Thanks for reading and hope to see you again soon! Until then, here is a great article on the decline of men and the ascendency of women: <br /><br /><a href="http://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2010/07/the-end-of-men/308135/" target="_blank">The End of Men</a>Jackie Goodsissyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17633744669036305300noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2169198080881126544.post-72758590821819927082013-01-12T07:11:00.001-08:002013-01-12T07:11:03.964-08:00The Sissy Experience ProjectHi sissies and anybody else that likes to read my Happy Sissy blog! Happy Sissy New Year!<br />
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I just wanted to make a quick post about a site that I have been having fun with lately. I also think this site is useful for spreading awareness of the sissy and female superiority lifestyle among people that are not already involved in such a lifestyle. The site is called <a href="http://www.experienceproject.com/" target="_blank">Experience Project</a>.<br />
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The actual link is <a href="http://www.experienceproject.com/" target="_blank">http://www.experienceproject.com/</a><br />
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This is a very fun site where you can set up your sissy profile and share your sissy stories with the world. People add experiences and then tell their stories about that experience. Others can join that experience group and tell their own stories. Each group has a members list, a forum and other features for the group. For instance, a typical group is called <a href="http://www.experienceproject.com/groups/Am-A-Sissy/68232" target="_blank">I Am A Sissy</a>. This group currently has 3,007 members!<br />
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There are also places where sissies and others in the feminization or female empowerment movements can interact with others who are not in related lifestyles. This has the effect of demonstrating that there are sissies and empowered women in society and that our influence is on the rise. Hopefully, some people, potential sissies, women who want to be empowered, whoever, will see the examples and become interested in the possibilities. <br />
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I encourage all my sissy friends to join the <a href="http://www.experienceproject.com/" target="_blank">Experience Project</a> and add me to your circle. My profile is here at <a href="http://www.experienceproject.com/about/jackiesissy" target="_blank">Jackie's sissy profile</a>. Once I see that I have been added to your circle I will add you to my circle and then we will be friends! And of course, a sissy can never have too many gurl friends!<br />
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If you do decide to join, be sure to send me a message and let me know. Maybe we can plan ways to expand and expose our lifestyles and philosophies beyond our own cozy little group. Together we can spread the sissy and female empowered lifestyles to new and exciting places and levels!<br />
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Thanks so much for reading and have a Happy Sissy 2013! Jackie Goodsissyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17633744669036305300noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2169198080881126544.post-33377394741210267012012-12-30T09:16:00.001-08:002012-12-30T09:16:17.070-08:00Thanks for a Happy Sissy 2012!Just a quick note to end the year 2102 from me, Jackie the Happy Sissy.<br />
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First of all, thanks so much to everybody that read my blog this year! When I first started this blog I didn't know what to expect from it or for it. From it, I got a lot of satisfaction and a sense of accomplishment. It has been a great aid in getting my thoughts and ideas about sissy life and feminine superiority organized and expressed.<br />
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For it, the first few months went with zero or single-digit page views. This didn't bother me because I was doing it more for myself than anything. But then people started finding it, some other blogs linked to it, and suddenly I was getting hundreds and then over a thousand visitors a month. Then I advertised my blog in a post at the Club Sissy discussion board and started talking about it in chat rooms and soon I was getting thousands of views. Now, it is over ten thousand visitors a month and still rising!<br />
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My aim has always been to help sissies and especially women who find themselves in relationships with sissies to be happy and enjoy their life. I also want to spread awareness of the feminine-led lifestyle as much as possible. In that area, I have been thrilled to see visitors from places like the Philippines, Indonesia and Malaysia. Even such male-dominated places such as Saudi Arabia, Yemen, Afghanistan, Iraq and even Iran! Hopefully in some small way I have raised awareness among women that there is another way.<br />
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But most of all, I appreciate the comments, emails and chats I have had with sissies, women, and even men because of this blog. Thanks so much for the comments, compliments and even the constructive criticism.<br />
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I hope I can maintain your interest in the upcoming year and I will do my best to keep posting interesting and relevant essays and articles for sissies and women who find themselves, or want to find themselves, in relationships with sissies.<br />
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So, thanks again to everybody for reading in 2012! I hope your year was great and that 2013 will be even better! Let me know of any subjects you are interested in and would like me to address. Say hello anytime you want to in Club Sissy chat room, email, or Yahoo Messenger (both are jackiesissy@yahoo.com).<br />
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Have a happy and totally sissy 2013! Love to you all...<br />
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Jackie (the Happy Sissy!)<br />
<br />Jackie Goodsissyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17633744669036305300noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2169198080881126544.post-54069651427984621382012-12-08T14:17:00.001-08:002012-12-08T14:17:29.204-08:00Humiliation and the Sissy, Part 5 - Tying Up the Loose EndsFor the fifth and final part of this series about sissies and humiliation I want to tie up some loose ends that didn't seem to fit in any of the other entries. <br /><br />For one thing, I have not addressed the idea of humiliation as a fetish. Many people, and not just sissies, enjoy and get a sexual charge from humiliation. I am well aware of this and have of course felt the rush of euphoria in the aftermath of humiliation myself. But humiliation as a fetish is not really what this series was meant to be about. <br /><br />What I get from humiliation can best be described as a sense of accomplishment. It generally means that I have exposed myself, or been exposed in some way, as a sissy. It means that I have overcome inhibitions and ingrained attitudes about femininity and have thus reduced my masculinity. In my own mind, and hopefully in the eyes of others, I have become less of a man, more of a sissy. And if I am lucky, my own loss of masculinity might somehow lead to a loss of masculinity for some other male or an increase in empowerment for a female. Anything that I can do to change the balance of power in society is important. Every little bit helps. Every sissy should keep this in mind. <br /><br />There is also the matter of public exposure for the expressed purpose of humiliation. I believe that a sissy has a right to express herself anywhere, even in public. However, I also feel that it is not proper to bring unwilling participants into one's own fetish or sexual activity. Admittedly, this can cause some gray areas. <br /><br />My advice is just to use good judgement. Is it okay to walk through a mall in a frilly sissy dress, exposing ruffled panties for the singular purpose of being humiliated? I'm thinking not so much. Is it okay to wear feminine clothes in public? Of course it is. Once again, a sissy has a right to be herself. It if is something a woman could legitimately wear in public, a male, a sissy, can wear it too. This might still cause the sissy some embarrassment, but it is not the expressed purpose. <br /><br />So, I think I have come to the end of my series about humiliation and the sissy. I hope you liked it! If you think of anything I missed, or have any observations about what I have written, don't hesitate to let me know. <br /><br />Thanks so much for reading! Jackie Goodsissyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17633744669036305300noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2169198080881126544.post-58384617548590648882012-12-01T11:56:00.002-08:002012-12-01T11:56:55.451-08:00Humiliation and the Sissy, Part 4 - Being a Sissy... is Not for Sissies!In this fourth part of my series about sissies and humiliation I want to stress the idea that sissies can be considered courageous for inviting and enduring humiliation. I want to point out how this courage on the part of sissies belies one of the most common usages of the word "sissy." <br /><br />The first definition of "sissy" in my dictionary is "an effeminate boy or man." Fair enough, however another definition is "a timid or cowardly person." My view is that for the sissy to be herself, that is "an effeminate male," especially in public, she can't be timid or cowardly. <br /><br />It takes a certain amount of nerve for a male to shop openly in the lingerie section of a department store because, as I have pointed out, <a href="http://thehappysissy.blogspot.com/2011/12/shopping-for-panties-for-sissies-just.html" target="_blank">everyone knows the panties are for you</a>. Somebody might laugh at you. It takes even more nerve to openly shop for feminine clothes like dresses, skirts, blouses, etc. Especially if you accept assistance from the sales staff or ask to try things on. They might talk about you behind your back. In fact, they almost certainly will. True, these activities are low risk from a physical standpoint, but there is a high risk of being embarrassed, but that is still risk. Facing risk is not something a "timid or cowardly person" does. <br /><br />And sissies might risk humiliation in an endless number of other ways and to many different degrees. How about publicly wearing a bra under<a href="http://thehappysissy.blogspot.com/2011/12/shopping-for-panties-for-sissies-just.html" target="_blank"></a> a t-shirt? What about a doctor visit when you decide to be yourself and wear panties? Or, more seriously, telling your wife what was, up to that point, your secret? Now that takes nerve. These are good things from the important standpoint of publicizing the existence of sissies and of living your life, and they all take varying amounts of courage. <br /><br />Being a sissy is generally not a choice, some males are just not cut out to be "real men." Some sissies think they are real men until an enlightened and enlightening woman exposes their true self for them. But are you really a sissy unless someone else sees you as a sissy? I am not sure that you are. I think the more that other people see you and realize that you are a sissy, the more of a sissy you are. And allowing people to see that you are a sissy takes courage. Therefore, being an effeminate male is not for the timid or cowardly. <br /><br />In other words, being a sissy is not for sissies! <br /><br />I think I have one more entry left in the "Humiliation and the Sissy" series, a few loose ends to tie up. Until next time, let me know of any other typical examples of sissy courage that you might think of, or of examples of courage in your own life of which you are especially proud. And until next time, thanks for reading! 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I ended the last article in this series by saying that humiliation "makes you more of a sissy because it makes it easier to be a sissy." This probably requires a bit of explanation. I understand that it could be argued that humiliation is what makes it hard to be a sissy. After all, if a sissy was not afraid of being embarrassed, there would be nothing stopping her. She could be as sissy as she wanted in any situation. But the answer lies within the argument: it is not humiliation that makes it a challenge to be a sissy, it is the fear of humiliation. The truth is, experiencing humiliation makes it easier to be a sissy because, once you experience humiliation in a given situation, that situation becomes less scary. A few examples...<br />
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I was embarrassed when I first went shopping for panties, now I enjoy it even though I realize that everybody knows the panties are for me (see <a href="http://thehappysissy.blogspot.com/2011/12/shopping-for-panties-for-sissies-just.html" target="_blank">this earlier entry</a>). I was embarrassed when my wife first saw me in a maid uniform, now I find it fulfilling for her to approve my appearance and compliment me on chores well done. I was mortified when Miss Barbara's mother walked in on me cleaning in a housekeeping dress, now I take pride in spending a day at her house, in full maid uniform, and getting it as spotless as it can be. The first time I went jogging in a running skirt a group of three female runners, two of whom I actually knew, burst out in laughter at the sight of me. I felt like hiding and almost turned back. But I kept going and now I might jog past a dozen people on a run and not worry, even as they sometimes giggle and point. <br />
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In all of these cases, being a sissy became easier after being initially humiliating. I think being embarrassed is probably the most effective way for a sissy to grow. But the truth is, it has been a while since I have been embarrassed to be a sissy. On one hand, I can see how this is a good thing. It shows acceptance of myself as a sissy and, at least in some situations, acceptance that others see me as a sissy too. On the other hand, maybe I've gotten too comfortable. Maybe I'm not trying hard enough. Maybe I need to have more courage. <br />
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Courage? What would a sissy know about courage? Well, putting yourself into a situation where you might be humiliated is not natural. Your palms sweat, your hands shake, your voice might not be steady, you get nervous. You may have experienced the feeling of your mind screaming for you to run away to safety. But courage is <i>not</i> not being afraid, courage is being afraid but continuing on. It takes courage to expose yourself to humiliation. That is why I say that, oddly enough, "Being a sissy... is not for sissies!" <br />
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I'll talk more about the courage of sissies in part four of the "Humiliation and the Sissy" series. Until then, let me know what you think. Has humiliation made it easier for you to be a sissy? Or, has it made it harder? Do you feel courageous as a sissy? Have you seen or heard about a sissy doing something that takes courage? See you soon and thanks again for reading! Jackie Goodsissyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17633744669036305300noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2169198080881126544.post-46976414887615046242012-10-26T15:31:00.002-07:002012-10-26T15:31:55.595-07:00Humiliation and the Sissy, Part 2 - Two Benefits of Embarrassing Your Sissy SelfThis is the second part in a series about the relationship between sissies and humiliation. This time I want to expand on the idea that sissies should expect, and even seek, humiliation and use embarrassment as a teaching and learning opportunity. <br /><br />It is possible for you to be a sissy and never be embarrassed. You can order panties, bras, dresses, maid uniforms, makeup, wigs... pretty much anything your little heart desires, online. You can hide all of your girly things from friends and family, dates, lovers and wives, and live in fear that somebody might find something. You can dress up in private and nobody will ever see you. You can be as sissy as you want online, make friends, have fun, be part of a community, and no one in the "real world" ever has to know. All of this is well and good, but for most sissies this should not be enough. <br /><br />A sissy needs to push the envelope in some way, to be challenged. And how is a sissy challenged? One way is to get herself into situations where she might be embarrassed. Shopping for panties is a good and very common example. Most sissies get very nervous when they first shop for panties of their own, I know I did. And why is this? A number of reasons might be given: "Somebody might see me." "Somebody might know the panties are for me." "Somebody might laugh at me." They all come down to the same thing: "Somebody might realize I am a sissy." And if somebody realizes you are a sissy you will be embarrassed, humiliated. <br /><br />Is the fact that you might be humiliated a good reason not to shop for panties? No! It is a good reason <i>to</i> shop for panties! The truth is, somebody, maybe several people, will certainly realize that you are a sissy. At a minimum the cashier will know. It might be embarrassing but there are at least two reasons that this is a good thing: 1) It spreads the idea that some "men" are sissies and 2) It gets you used to the fact that you yourself are a sissy. <br /><br />The first point is important because the more people that know about sissies, the more sissies there might be. Suppose only one person, the cashier, realizes you are a sissy (and she will). It might give her ideas about her husband. Or she might tell her husband which might give him ideas of his own. She could tell her girlfriends which might give them ideas about their husbands or boyfriends. Or they might tell their husbands or boyfriends and give them ideas of their own! Now multiply this effect by the number of people that see you shopping for panties. The point is, you never know how far the sissy influence might spread. <br /><br />The second point is important because if you are a sissy, you should feel like a sissy. And you never feel more like a sissy than when you are embarrassed because you know somebody else sees you as a sissy. There's no undoing it, no talking them out of it. They know it and you know it. You might as well accept it, and accept that more people will know it over time. This is a very powerful reinforcement of your identity as a sissy and not a man. Basically, it makes you more of a sissy because it makes it easier to be a sissy. <br /><br />I'll explore the second point more in part three of the "Humiliation and the Sissy" series. Until then, let me know what you think. Are there any more advantages of humiliating yourself as a sissy? What ways have you embarrassed yourself by revealing your true sissy self? See you next time and thanks so much for reading! Jackie Goodsissyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17633744669036305300noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2169198080881126544.post-89405754964545994282012-10-12T16:49:00.000-07:002012-10-12T16:49:08.387-07:00Humiliation and the Sissy, Part 1 - Is it Embarrassing to be a Sissy?In this series I want to talk about the relationship between sissies and humiliation, a subject that is more complex than it might at first seem. Much of this complexity arises from the different lifestyles and situations in which a sissy might find herself. I am going to start with two of the most basic questions: Is it humiliating just being a sissy? And, is being humiliated something a sissy should expect? <br /><br />First of all, the dictionary definition of "humiliate" is "to injure the self-respect of : MORTIFY - humiliation (n)." And, since humiliation is closely related to embarrassment, the most relevant definition of "embarrass" is "to cause to experience self-conscious distress." In addition, the definition of "humility" is "the quality or state of being humble" where the adjective "humble" means "1. not proud or haughty," "2. not pretentious," or "3. insignificant." <br /><br />Since it is the easiest one, I'll start with "humility." Humility, being humble, is of course an integral part of being a sissy. A sissy is not proud or haughty, and definitely not pretentious. As for the third definition, "insignificant," I feel that it does not apply. A sissy might describe herself as "insignificant," but I do not agree. No one is insignificant, whether man, woman, or sissy. In fact, I would argue that sissies are more beneficial to society than men, but that is a subject for a later essay. <br /><br />Humility and humiliation are not the same thing, but they are related in interesting ways. For one thing, humiliation (injury to self-respect) in the form of embarrassment (the experience of self-conscious distress) is useful, often even necessary, to teach sissies lessons in humility. On the other hand, the more humility a sissy possesses, the more humble she is, the less likely she is to be embarrassed, and therefore humiliated, in situations that would be completely mortifying to any real man. <br /><br />So, regarding the first of the questions that I started with: Is it humiliating just being a sissy? My answer is a bit subtle but I would say no, not necessarily. However, being a sissy often does, and probably even should, lead to situations in which the sissy experiences humiliation and embarrassment. In most cases, a sissy should view these situations as learning experiences, as lessons in humility. <br /><br />Which leads naturally to the second question: Is being humiliated something a sissy should expect? To this, I would say yes, as a sissy you should expect to be humiliated and embarrassed at some point. It might happen when someone discovers your secret, like when your wife catches you dressed up in women's clothes. Or maybe as the result of a situation that you put yourself in, like hearing teen-aged girls giggle at you as you shop in the lingerie section of a department store. If you are a sissy, and have never been embarrassed because of it, maybe you just aren't trying hard enough! <br /><br />What do you think dear readers? Is it humiliating or embarrassing to be a sissy? Is being embarrassed at times important in your development as a sissy? Let me know what you think, either in the comments, or in YM or email (jackiesissy@yahoo.com), or in chat at Club Sissy. Hope to hear from you! <br /><br />Stay tuned for part two of the "Humiliation and the Sissy" series, and thanks so much for reading! Jackie Goodsissyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17633744669036305300noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2169198080881126544.post-51484204992943517432012-09-17T15:12:00.000-07:002012-09-17T15:12:35.091-07:00Miss Barbara Reminds Jackie of Her Place as a SissyWell... I'm ready. One last look in the mirror and I see... well, a sissy, what else? One more reminder of the purpose behind this whole exercise. There is nothing in the mirror that would allow me to think I was looking at the reflection of a man. It is not the reflection of a woman, that is certainly true, but no real man would allow himself to look like the person in the mirror. That person is shaved hairless from face-to-toe, powdered, and dressed in a short, pink baby-doll nightie with ruffly panties peeking out below the hem. Adding to the effect, but not visible in the mirror of course, is the four-inch penis-shaped plug that is inserted... well, lets just say inserted. A wistful sigh, one last mental reminder that I really do need this, and I go downstairs to the living room where Miss Barbara awaits. <br />----------------------------------------------------------------------------<br />"Ah, there's my little sissy! Aren't you just adorable?" Miss Barbara greets me cheerfully. <br /><br />"Thank you Miss Barbara," I respond, giving a little curtsy, just as she expects. <br /><br />"Oh you are so welcome Jackie. Give us a little spin." I dutifully spin around, once, twice, the hem of the baby-doll nightie floats up and exposes my frilly ruffle panties. She nods approvingly, "Oh yes, that is just perfect. And your pacifier is in place, correct?" <br /><br />"Of course, Miss Barbara." <br /><br />"Then we're all ready aren't we?" <br /><br />"Yes ma'am," I respond. <br /><br />"Well then," she unbuttons her blouse and is soon topless. She pats her lap, "Let's get this over with, shall we?" I move toward the couch. <br />----------------------------------------------------------------------------<br />I'm laying on the couch, the back of my neck in the crook of her right arm. She is holding me to her breasts and I suckle at her nipples as she talks to me. <br /><br />"I know you were looking at those women. What were you thinking about?" Her left hand caresses me through my panties as she talks. <br /><br />"I was wishing I could be like them." I knew what she was asking about, there was no reason to deny it. It was a Victoria's Secret commercial. She didn't change the channel when it came on. I tried to remain impassive while it played and thought I succeeded. <br /><br />"Aww, that's nice. Of course you were, but are you sure that was all?" I had tried not to think anything while the commercial played, but the women were so beautiful in their pretty bras and panties. <br /><br />"Yes ma'am, I'm sure. I only wanted to be like they are." <br /><br />"Well, it's nice to dream but<i> I</i> know that <i>you </i>know that you can never really be like them. You just had a look that made me think you were thinking about... something more." She deftly extracts me from the panties as she holds my mouth to her nipples. "But of course that would be silly, right Jackie?" She strokes me even though I don't have a full erection, the "pacifier" makes sure of that. <br /><br />"Yes Miss Barbara, that would be silly." <br /><br />"And why is that, Jackie? Why would that be silly?" Her hand is still playing with me and it feels so good. I don't want her to stop and I don't want to stop suckling to answer, but I do. <br /><br />"Because women like that have no use for a little sissy like me." <br /><br />"That's right, Jackie, women like that need a real man, not a little sissy like you. What would those women think if they could see you now? They would get such a laugh! And look how little you are! I'm barely able to hold on enough to do this." She stops and loosens her arm so she can look me in the eyes. <br /><br />"Please don't stop Miss Barbara." <br /><br />"I won't sweetheart, just remember what we talked about. And tell me what you want." She starts again with her left hand. <br /><br />"Yes ma'am, I'll remember. I want milk. Please Miss Barbara, give me milk." <br /><br />She pulls me back to her nipples and I suck. "I will Jackie, sissy milk for the sissy." I lose control and release into her hand. She catches it and I taste the milk as she dribbles it down her breast.<br />
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"I love you Miss Barbara."<br />
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"I love you too Jackie." Jackie Goodsissyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17633744669036305300noreply@blogger.com5