Last time, we talked about where to shop for panties for sissies, especially sissies just starting out buying their own things. My opinion is that department store lingerie sections are the best option. But even then, a sissy male first shopping for herself is often nervous. That leads me to Part 2 of my series which I call, "Just Relax, Everybody Knows the Panties are for You."
It is natural to be nervous when you first start shopping for your own panties, but why? It often can be summed up by, "I'm afraid that the cashier and other shoppers will know I am shopping for myself." Well, that is nothing to worry about, because they almost certainly do know you are shopping for yourself, if they think about it at all. When you go into a lingerie department and start browsing the panties, you are pretty much admitting to it. Men might shop for lingerie for their lovers at Victorias Secret or Fredricks, but seldom at Penneys or Macys.
It is best just to assume that everyone who sees you knows you are shopping for yourself, and that they don't care. Both things are most likely true. Doing this allows you to relax and enjoy your shopping. In my experience, other shoppers barely take notice at all most of the time. They are absorbed in their own shopping and purchasing. I do try not to crowd women shoppers in the lingerie department, I don't want to appear "creepy" or anything.
Surely the cashier knows you are browsing the Vanity Fair full-cut nylon briefs (for instance) because you wear them yourself. No man would buy panties like that for a lover. So she knows you wear panties, so what? Just browse whatever you are interested in. Her main interest is that you buy something.
We talked a little about sales associates last time and what to say if you just want to browse in private. Usually the associate will say something like, "Just let me know if you need anything." One of the best ways to feel at home shopping for panties is to let her help you. You will be surprised how easy it is to say, "Do you have this in a size 7?" And how courteous and helpful her response will be, just like it is with every potential paying customer.
The cashier/sales associate will treat you just like you belong in the lingerie department, shopping for panties. And you do belong there, after all, you are a sissy! And when you check out, you should understand that she knows you are buying panties are for yourself. What else would she think when a male buys eight panties of different types? She will ring them up, take your money (which you should have easily accessible, no fumbling for a wallet), bag your purchases (sometimes even fold them!) and give them to you, with a smile on her face the whole time. Best of all, she will thank you for shopping in their store.
In short, everyone knows the panties are for you, and they mostly don't give it a second thought. And that is wonderful! So relax and enjoy your shopping experience.
Next issue: The first time I went shopping for panties, it was not pretty! Stay tuned for, "A Sissy's Guide to How Not to Shop for Panties."
Hi Jackie here is my comment for this post:
ReplyDeleteIn reading your blog entry about shopping for panties I noticed the shame that you associate in buying panties in discount stores and you might want to disagree but to me the shame is evident. A man wants to go shop for panties without the obseving and preying eyes of others who might think negatively of a man who buys such shameful things as panties. That is the reason right? Well just wanted you to know. I always buy regular underwear and not fancy panties so I have nothing to be ashamed about.
Hi Miss Marinam, thanks for the comment. I wouldn't call it shame exactly, although shame might play a role. It is more of a fear of embarrassment because yes, the fear is there that others might think negatively of a male buying "women's things". And, embarrassing things can happen, just check out my next post.
DeleteThanks for reading!
I always go and buy my own panties, as well as panties for my wife. We wear the same size so it is not that big a deal.
ReplyDeleteWhen I was in my teens, I would take panties off cloth lines or from cloth hampers to use and wear. As I grew older, I started to go to department stores and take them. I never got caught. Now that I'm older, I buy my panties on line or sometimes at the Mall. I'm married and my wife does not approve of me wearing panties. I have to do it when she is not in the house. We sleep in different rooms. At night I can wear my panties and night gowns.I have had
ReplyDeletemany encounters with other men and sissys and I love to pretend to be a little girl and have them rape me. When I wear panties, I feel fem and wish I was a real girl, however, when I'm not wearing panties, I feel like any other man. Strange!! Panties turn me into a sissy.
There is soo much wisdom in your blog. i am soo impressed!
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