Sunday, December 30, 2012

Thanks for a Happy Sissy 2012!

Just a quick note to end the year 2102 from me, Jackie the Happy Sissy.

First of all, thanks so much to everybody that read my blog this year! When I first started this blog I didn't know what to expect from it or for it. From it, I got a lot of satisfaction and a sense of accomplishment. It has been a great aid in getting my thoughts and ideas about sissy life and feminine superiority organized and expressed.

For it, the first few months went with zero or single-digit page views. This didn't bother me because I was doing it more for myself than anything. But then people started finding it, some other blogs linked to it, and suddenly I was getting hundreds and then over a thousand visitors a month. Then I advertised my blog in a post at the Club Sissy discussion board and started talking about it in chat rooms and soon I was getting thousands of views. Now, it is over ten thousand visitors a month and still rising!

My aim has always been to help sissies and especially women who find themselves in relationships with sissies to be happy and enjoy their life. I also want to spread awareness of the feminine-led lifestyle as much as possible. In that area, I have been thrilled to see visitors from places like the Philippines, Indonesia and Malaysia. Even such male-dominated places such as Saudi Arabia, Yemen, Afghanistan, Iraq and even Iran! Hopefully in some small way I have raised awareness among women that there is another way.

But most of all, I appreciate the comments, emails and chats I have had with sissies, women, and even men because of this blog. Thanks so much for the comments, compliments and even the constructive criticism.

I hope I can maintain your interest in the upcoming year and I will do my best to keep posting interesting and relevant essays and articles for sissies and women who find themselves, or want to find themselves, in relationships with sissies.

So, thanks again to everybody for reading in 2012! I hope your year was great and that 2013 will be even better! Let me know of any subjects you are interested in and would like me to address. Say hello anytime you want to in Club Sissy chat room, email, or Yahoo Messenger (both are

Have a happy and totally sissy 2013! Love to you all...

Jackie (the Happy Sissy!)

Saturday, December 8, 2012

Humiliation and the Sissy, Part 5 - Tying Up the Loose Ends

For the fifth and final part of this series about sissies and humiliation I want to tie up some loose ends that didn't seem to fit in any of the other entries.

For one thing, I have not addressed the idea of humiliation as a fetish. Many people, and not just sissies, enjoy and get a sexual charge from humiliation. I am well aware of this and have of course felt the rush of euphoria in the aftermath of humiliation myself. But humiliation as a fetish is not really what this series was meant to be about.

What I get from humiliation can best be described as a sense of accomplishment. It generally means that I have exposed myself, or been exposed in some way, as a sissy. It means that I have overcome inhibitions and ingrained attitudes about femininity and have thus reduced my masculinity. In my own mind, and hopefully in the eyes of others, I have become less of a man, more of a sissy. And if I am lucky, my own loss of masculinity might somehow lead to a loss of masculinity for some other male or an increase in empowerment for a female. Anything that I can do to change the balance of power in society is important. Every little bit helps. Every sissy should keep this in mind.

There is also the matter of public exposure for the expressed purpose of humiliation. I believe that a sissy has a right to express herself anywhere, even in public. However, I also feel that it is not proper to bring unwilling participants into one's own fetish or sexual activity. Admittedly, this can cause some gray areas.

My advice is just to use good judgement. Is it okay to walk through a mall in a frilly sissy dress, exposing ruffled panties for the singular purpose of being humiliated? I'm thinking not so much. Is it okay to wear feminine clothes in public? Of course it is. Once again, a sissy has a right to be herself. It if is something a woman could legitimately wear in public, a male, a sissy, can wear it too. This might still cause the sissy some embarrassment, but it is not the expressed purpose.

So, I think I have come to the end of my series about humiliation and the sissy. I hope you liked it! If you think of anything I missed, or have any observations about what I have written, don't hesitate to let me know.

Thanks so much for reading!

Saturday, December 1, 2012

Humiliation and the Sissy, Part 4 - Being a Sissy... is Not for Sissies!

In this fourth part of my series about sissies and humiliation I want to stress the idea that sissies can be considered courageous for inviting and enduring humiliation. I want to point out how this courage on the part of sissies belies one of the most common usages of the word "sissy."

The first definition of "sissy" in my dictionary is "an effeminate boy or man." Fair enough, however another definition is "a timid or cowardly person." My view is that for the sissy to be herself, that is "an effeminate male," especially in public, she can't be timid or cowardly.

It takes a certain amount of nerve for a male to shop openly in the lingerie section of a department store because, as I have pointed out, everyone knows the panties are for you. Somebody might laugh at you. It takes even more nerve to openly shop for feminine clothes like dresses, skirts, blouses, etc. Especially if you accept assistance from the sales staff or ask to try things on. They might talk about you behind your back. In fact, they almost certainly will. True, these activities are low risk from a physical standpoint, but there is a high risk of being embarrassed, but that is still risk. Facing risk is not something a "timid or cowardly person" does.

And sissies might risk humiliation in an endless number of other ways and to many different degrees. How about publicly wearing a bra under a t-shirt? What about a doctor visit when you decide to be yourself and wear panties? Or, more seriously, telling your wife what was, up to that point, your secret? Now that takes nerve. These are good things from the important standpoint of publicizing the existence of sissies and of living your life, and they all take varying amounts of courage.

Being a sissy is generally not a choice, some males are just not cut out to be "real men." Some sissies think they are real men until an enlightened and enlightening woman exposes their true self for them. But are you really a sissy unless someone else sees you as a sissy? I am not sure that you are. I think the more that other people see you and realize that you are a sissy, the more of a sissy you are. And allowing people to see that you are a sissy takes courage. Therefore, being an effeminate male is not for the timid or cowardly.

In other words, being a sissy is not for sissies!

I think I have one more entry left in the "Humiliation and the Sissy" series, a few loose ends to tie up. Until next time, let me know of any other typical examples of sissy courage that you might think of, or of examples of courage in your own life of which you are especially proud. And until next time, thanks for reading!