Just A Worthless Sissy? - I Don't Think So!

In the online world of sissies I come across the phrase "just a worthless sissy" a lot. Something like, "I accepted that I was just a worthless sissy," or "She tells me that I am just a worthless sissy." When I read such things I always want to say, "You may be a sissy, but you are not worthless! She needs to know that, and more importantly, you need to know that!"

First and foremost, if you are a male, and sissies are males (sad but true, I know), it still doesn't mean you have to be a man to be of value. In fact, given the damage male domination has inflicted on society in general and women in particular, I think a sissy is more valuable to society than a real man! Plus, the sissy can be even more important depending on where she lives. For instance, every sissy living in a strict, male-dominated society such as India, Saudi Arabia, Egypt, Indonesia, or the Philippines (all places from which I know sissies) is critical in spreading the cause of feminization.

I understand that the "worthless sissy" sentiment might be a natural response. Natural to a wife that has discovered her husband, someone she formally regarded as masculine, dressed up in lingerie and masturbating into panties. She feels shocked and betrayed, remembers the nagging, unspoken questions that lurk in her mind, "Why doesn't he express the interest in sex that he used to? Why, when we do have sex, is his energy and endurance always so low? Where did those panties under the bed come from?" Suddenly her questions are answered and the image of her husband shatters as she catches him dressed up and cumming in a pair of panties. "I thought I was married to a man but now I find out he's just a worthless sissy!" Who can blame her if this is her first reaction?

The "worthless sissy" sentiment might even come from a sissy herself, a sissy raised with society's ideal of what a "real man" should be, but who can't live up to it. He tries, sometimes even throwing away every item of female clothes he has been hiding, but he just can't do it. Soon he finds himself dressed up in pretty lingerie, panties soaked again. A male in this situation might think, "I tried to be a real man, but I just can't. I guess I'm just a worthless sissy!"

These reactions may be understandable, but there is just one problem... they are wrong! Hopefully the wife will read my series about what a woman should do if she catches her man in panties (Caught Your Husband in Panties?). If she does, she will see that finding out she has a sissy hubby is the best thing that could happen! How worthless will she think her sissy is when she is inspecting her spotless kitchen as the sissy stands by, eyes down? When she realizes that she is a queen in her home and her word is law? When it really sinks in that she can have any kind of marriage she wants? If the woman will take charge, be patient and understanding, and shape the sissy to her will, she will see that a sissy is far from worthless.

And if you are a sissy and ever find yourself thinking that you are "just a worthless sissy," well stop! Do not purge. Do not throw your sissy treasures away, it won't help. Sissy things are not what make you a sissy. You will still be a sissy after the things are gone and soon you will be buying more. If you feel worthless, find a way to be a better sissy! Practice your makeup, clean the bathroom, buy some nice panties, you can always do something to make yourself into a happy sissy.

Above all just remember, in this rough, male-dominated (for now) world, the sissy may not be the "average male," but she is the average male of the future, feminized world. Today's sissy is ahead of her time, less common and more special, and far more valuable as a result.

So sissies, hold you head up and be proud! Unless, that is, you are standing before your Mistress, in which case you should probably keep your eyes down... but be proud! Sissies are not worthless at all!

So thanks again for reading. Get in touch in any of the usual ways. Leave a comment if you feel like it. Link my blog in your blog and I will return the favor. And above all (you know it's coming)... be Happy Sissies!

Panties Reviewed on Amazon.com - Sissy Review Takes the Top Spot!

Good news sissies, my sissy-oriented review of my beloved Vanity Fair Lace Nouveau panties at Amazon.com is now the most prominent review on the product page! With twelve people, undoubtedly mostly sissies, rating the review as "helpful" it has moved to the top of the stack. You can see it here:

Vanity Fair Lace Nouveau panties

Thanks to all of you sissies that rated the review! I think there were only two "helpfuls" when I posted that blog entry. If you check out the page you will see that the next review after mine also has twelve "helpfuls" so we barely passed it, in fact it is a tie.

If any sissy (or anybody else for that matter!) has an Amazon account and has not rated the review as "helpful" it would be a great help if you could add your vote. You could help make sure an open, honest and most importantly, un-apologetically sissy review of these panties remains at the top for all to see.

If you want to join the fun, post some of our own sissy reviews of this or any other feminine product and let your sissy sisses know so we can rate them up. Soon all the sissy perspectives popping up will show people, especially women, that sissies are among them! And, as sissies, isn't that right where we want to be, among the women? Hehehe...

Thanks for reading and get in touch through the comments or the various other ways available. And most of all, be Happy Sissies!

Feminization Technique ala Miss Barbara - How She Tamed Her Sissy's Naughty Habit

I was just reflecting on the wisdom of Miss Barbara and the effectiveness of one of her techniques from my early sissy training. The problem she faced was my inappropriate and irresponsible masturbation. Miss Barbara allowed me such things as wearing panties, wearing nighties to bed, and doing household chores dressed in a maid outfit when she was away from home. The trouble was, she continued to find inappropriate porn and worse, catch me by surprise in the act of masturbating to material that was not proper for a sissy. What was a beginning Mistress to do with her undisciplined fledgling sissy?

The answer she came up with, possibly with help from her mother, Miss Carolyn, was something I call "enforced proper masturbation." The problem as she identified it was this: Dressing up was sexually stimulating and I was tempted to masturbate as soon as I was left alone. Even worse, I would habitually use heterosexual man-on-woman pornography of a kind that is not appropriate for a sissy to be viewing. Her strategy for controlling the problem was to break the cycle.

I still remember the first time she used the technique. She had me sit on the couch and she told me that she was going shopping for a while. She told me to get dressed up because she had some chores for me. I was to have them done before she got home, and remain dressed until she approved my work. I was excited because I thought I would be masturbating soon. She seemed to read my mind and told me that she wanted me working, not "jacking off to some kind of porn." I told her that of course I was going to work and not jack off, but I knew it was a lie.

"I know," she said, "because you are going to do it now before I go." I was thrown off guard by that and asked what she meant. She said that to help me resist temptation I would masturbate, under supervision, before she left the house. "Right now, right in your panties." She had me take everything off except my panties and do it right there on the couch, while she was getting ready. She clinically observed as I finished, wetting my panties as she had said. "Good sissy. Now go get dressed so I can go."

All of a sudden I wasn't sure I wanted to dress up and clean house. But I knew I had to, otherwise she would think that the only reason I dressed up was for the sexual thrill. I shoved my leaky, wet little thing into my messy panties and went to the bedroom to get dressed. When I came back down the hall in my maid dress, complete with a full slip, girdle, tights and sensible shoes, I wasn't sexually excited. In fact, I felt embarrassed and emasculated.

Miss Barbara gave her approval of my outfit, the list of chores, and off she went shopping. I did the chores thoroughly and efficiently, was not tempted to masturbate, and felt more demaled than ever when she got home and had to approve my work before I could change back to male clothes.

In other words, her technique worked like a charm! Over the years she used this technique with many variations to gain control of my masturbation addiction and direct my energies into becoming a better sissy. It taught me that the purpose of dressing up was not for sexual excitement, but because I was a sissy! It also redirected my tastes in porn to areas more appropriate for the sissy.

I'm not sure if this is the first article in a series, or just a stand-alone. Either way, thanks for reading! And stay Happy Sissies!