Feminization Technique ala Miss Barbara - How She Tamed Her Sissy's Naughty Habit

I was just reflecting on the wisdom of Miss Barbara and the effectiveness of one of her techniques from my early sissy training. The problem she faced was my inappropriate and irresponsible masturbation. Miss Barbara allowed me such things as wearing panties, wearing nighties to bed, and doing household chores dressed in a maid outfit when she was away from home. The trouble was, she continued to find inappropriate porn and worse, catch me by surprise in the act of masturbating to material that was not proper for a sissy. What was a beginning Mistress to do with her undisciplined fledgling sissy?

The answer she came up with, possibly with help from her mother, Miss Carolyn, was something I call "enforced proper masturbation." The problem as she identified it was this: Dressing up was sexually stimulating and I was tempted to masturbate as soon as I was left alone. Even worse, I would habitually use heterosexual man-on-woman pornography of a kind that is not appropriate for a sissy to be viewing. Her strategy for controlling the problem was to break the cycle.

I still remember the first time she used the technique. She had me sit on the couch and she told me that she was going shopping for a while. She told me to get dressed up because she had some chores for me. I was to have them done before she got home, and remain dressed until she approved my work. I was excited because I thought I would be masturbating soon. She seemed to read my mind and told me that she wanted me working, not "jacking off to some kind of porn." I told her that of course I was going to work and not jack off, but I knew it was a lie.

"I know," she said, "because you are going to do it now before I go." I was thrown off guard by that and asked what she meant. She said that to help me resist temptation I would masturbate, under supervision, before she left the house. "Right now, right in your panties." She had me take everything off except my panties and do it right there on the couch, while she was getting ready. She clinically observed as I finished, wetting my panties as she had said. "Good sissy. Now go get dressed so I can go."

All of a sudden I wasn't sure I wanted to dress up and clean house. But I knew I had to, otherwise she would think that the only reason I dressed up was for the sexual thrill. I shoved my leaky, wet little thing into my messy panties and went to the bedroom to get dressed. When I came back down the hall in my maid dress, complete with a full slip, girdle, tights and sensible shoes, I wasn't sexually excited. In fact, I felt embarrassed and emasculated.

Miss Barbara gave her approval of my outfit, the list of chores, and off she went shopping. I did the chores thoroughly and efficiently, was not tempted to masturbate, and felt more demaled than ever when she got home and had to approve my work before I could change back to male clothes.

In other words, her technique worked like a charm! Over the years she used this technique with many variations to gain control of my masturbation addiction and direct my energies into becoming a better sissy. It taught me that the purpose of dressing up was not for sexual excitement, but because I was a sissy! It also redirected my tastes in porn to areas more appropriate for the sissy.

I'm not sure if this is the first article in a series, or just a stand-alone. Either way, thanks for reading! And stay Happy Sissies!

Panties Reviewed on Amazon.com - The Sissy Perspective

You may know from prior posts that the Vanity Fair Lace Nouveau Brief is my favorite kind of panties. They are comfy and well-fitting and best of all, when you buy them at the store, there is no doubt that you are buying them for yourself. No man buys a woman panties like the Lace Nouveau brief.

Anyway, I posted a review of the Vanity Fair Lace Nouveau Brief at Amazon.com. If you check it out you will see that the review was unabashedly from the sissy perspective. I mean, it's titled, "Great panties for the sissy!" after all. Here is the link to the Vanity Fair Lace Nouveau Brief product page:

Vanity Fair Lace Nouveau Brief

Currently, I see my review as the second one down the right-hand column. Here's a link to the review:

Jackie Sissy's Lace Nouveau review

In the review I bring up both sissies in panties, and women putting their men in panties. What do you think? Does that help raise the visibility of sissies and superior women? If you think so, be sure to click the "Yes" button for "Was this review helpful?" If enough people tag it as "helpful" it will move into an even more visible place on the product page.

Even better, after you click "Yes" on my review, post a review of your own for these panties, or another product (nightie, bra, etc.) from the sissy perspective. If you do, be sure to let me know and I'll rate your review!

Thanks for reading. Have fun, and always be Happy Sissies!

Jackie (the Happy Sissy!)

The Feminization of Society Part 5 - What Is A Sissy To Do?

Feminine influence is increasing in all areas of society. Among the reasons for this are women increasingly becoming better educated than men and taking positions of authority in government and business, and traditional men being less equipped to excel in the modern world. We could soon see the onset of active feminization policies that will reshape society. How might the sissy fit into a feminized world? Is there anything the individual sissy can do to advance the coming matriarchy? These questions are what I want to talk about in this, the last entry in my series on the feminization of society.

As you might guess, sissies are perfectly suited for feminized society. We already regard women to be superior and are willing to submit to their authority in the household. We should be willing to do so in business as well. As society becomes feminized, powerful and influential women will see the value of submissive males as subordinates. Masculine, "alpha males" will be seen as disruptive and uncooperative liabilities. Males displaying feminine inclinations will be recognized as non-threatening and pliable assets.

Meanwhile, back at home, this generation of educated, powerful and ambitious women will learn to value a partner that assumes a role traditionally reserved for women, that of "housewife." After a time, she will likely come to demand it. In a society where active feminization is the norm, these women will bring it into the home and begin feminizing their partners to prepare them for the role of "housewife." Sissies are ready to assume this role with minimal friction.

As women become more powerful in their public and social lives, they will naturally extend displays of power and control into their private lives. A submissive and disciplined domestic partner may well become a status symbol and feminization is the perfect symbol of discipline. In addition, displays of control, such as enforced chastity and of power, such as regular pegging, seem destined to become much more common. Here again, we see that the sissy is ready-made to fit into the coming matriarchy.

How can sissies help to bring about the matriarchy? The best way I can think of is visibility. The more women are struck by the realization that a male is a sissy, like when she sees him buying panties that no man would buy for a woman, the more she feels her growing influence and power. When she tells her friends, "Guess what I saw today?" the feeling spreads. If one of those friends confides, "Well, my husband is in panties all the time, and he is totally devoted to me!" the more women think to themselves that it might be a good idea for their hubbies.

Sissies can create profiles on Victoria's Secret, Amazon or department store sites and write sissy-centric reviews of panties, bras, nighties, dresses, makeup... any traditionally feminine products. Other sissies can comment on the reviews or mark them as "helpful" to increase their visibility (my next blog post will show an example of this).

If possible, sissies can "come out" to their wives, girlfriends, or dates. The more adventurous among us can go out dressed up in our sissy best. Even wearing a bra under a t shirt can raise sissy visibility in a subtle way. The important thing is that every little bit helps. I would note here that some might object to sissies "imposing their fetish on unwilling bystanders." My answer to that is that you, as a sissy, have every right to be yourself, just like anybody else, as long as you are not unnecessarily blatant about it.

So, to finish up my series on the feminization of society I ask, do you have any other ideas about how sissies can help bring about the coming matriarchy? I would love to hear them! Let me know in the comments or through any of the several ways I can be contacted. And once again, thanks for reading and be happy sissies!