Last night I was chatting with a sissy friend at Club Sissy (hi Cindy!) and we had a nice discussion during which some questions came up. I've taken the liberty of paraphrasing our conversation into a "Dear Abby"-style letter and following it up with my thoughts in the form of an answer. Sound like fun? I hope so, here goes...
Dear Happy Sissy,
I have secretly been a sissy for a long time but now I am on the cusp of a life-change. My wife will soon be fully aware that I am a sissy and that I want only to serve her. I am a closet sissy but the door is opening and I will soon be exposed.
First, my wife found my sissy clothes. She did not seem too upset or even very surprised, but I made the mistake of not talking about it and letting her assume that I got rid of my sissy things. Soon after, I actually told her that I want to serve her, but still didn't confess my sissy-hood. The last straw is my shortcomings in the bedroom. I know my sexual performance has been unsatisfactory for some time, but I did everything I could to avoid the issue. It can be avoided no longer. After a recent frustrating encounter, she told me of her dissatisfaction and said we might have to "make other arrangements." She obviously no longer considers me a satisfactory husband. Logically, the next step is obvious: admit to her that I am not a real man, I am a sissy and as such will have to support any "other arrangements" she deems necessary.
The problem is fear. I have no doubt she will accept me as her sissy, but I am afraid of the life changes it will bring about. So fearful that I sometimes think I should deny my sissy nature, act like a real man, and try to be a good husband. I don't know if such a thing is possible, but I can't help thinking about it. Sometimes it seems easier to go back than to plunge into the unknowns of sissy life.
What do you think Jackie? Can a sissy go back to being a man? Is it worth even considering? I feel my destiny is as a sissy, but I am still afraid. Is there anything I can do to ease my anxiety about coming changes?
Please help and sign me,
wanna-be-Happy-Sissy cindy
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Dear wanna-be-Happy-Sissy Cindy,
First of all, congratulations! I talk to a lot of sissies that would love to be in your Mary Janes. Unfortunately, they feel stuck in the walk-in with little hope of emerging into the light of the vanity mirror. First I will offer my advice and then touch on your questions.
My advice is for you to walk out of that closet in your best outfit, confess your sissyhood, and submit to your wife's service as soon as possible. You ask the question, "Can a sissy go back to being a man?" I think the answer is contained in your line, "...I sometimes think I should deny my sissy nature, act like a real man, and try to be a good husband." Do you see it? You know your nature is that of a sissy and the closest you can come to being a real man is just an act. That is no way for a person to live. To be happy, and to make your wife happy, you must be true to your nature as a sissy. There is no going back, you are and always will be a sissy.
As for your anxiety, I'm sure a lot of it concerns the "other arrangements" mentioned by your wife. That is totally understandable, but there is nothing you can do about it except maybe become a super stud in bed. My guess is that is not an option. You could deny your sissy self and try to be a real man, but your wife will remain unhappy, unsatisfied, and ultimately probably leave you. Or, you can take the leap (just be careful in those heels!), submit to her as a sissy, and your relationship has a chance to reach levels of excitement and satisfaction most couples can only dream about.
But the best thing you have going for you is... She already knows you are a sissy! She found your sissy panties, you already told her you want to serve her, and she is aware of your shortcomings in the bedroom. My guess is that she is just watching with amusement as you struggle to come to terms with your true nature and the direction of your marriage.
So, put on your big girl panties and submit to your wife. You are ready and she is ready. Plus, once you do it, a lot of your anxiety will evaporate. That is because, once you are officially her sissy, everything else will be up to her!
Congratulations again, you are well on your way to being a Happy Sissy!
Love,
Jackie (the Happy Sissy!)
A happy and cheerful sissy shares insights, stories and advice from her own experience and the wisdom of the women in her life.
Tuesday, December 10, 2013
Monday, October 28, 2013
These Are a Few of My Favorite (Sissy!) Things
Hi sissies! If you have been following my blog, you know I have been raising sissy visibility, and having a lot of fun, at Amazon.com. Oh, a quick update, my review of the Vanity Fair Lace Nouveau panties now has 24 "helpful" ratings! It is by far the highest rated review and very visible on the product page. Thanks everybody!
Well, now I have created a public list, which they call a "Listmania" list, called Jackie's Happy Sissy List. It is a fun list of various products which I picked out to help happy sissies be even happier sissies! Many of the products I have or use myself, some I might want to try, others are just fun sissy products. I have also been reading sissy literature from Amazon on my Kindle so I might be putting recommended reading materials for sissies too.
Let me know what you think of my list. Any ideas about what I just must add to make a sissy happy? Once again, here is the link to the list:
Jackie's Happy Sissy List
One thing, I haven't seen a good way to find the Listmania lists at Amazon, so it may be that nobody will be able to find it while just browsing around. But at least my sissy friends and followers will be able to see it!
So thanks for reading to all of my sissy friends, I love you all so much! Until next time, enjoy (sissy) life and be Happy Sissies!
Well, now I have created a public list, which they call a "Listmania" list, called Jackie's Happy Sissy List. It is a fun list of various products which I picked out to help happy sissies be even happier sissies! Many of the products I have or use myself, some I might want to try, others are just fun sissy products. I have also been reading sissy literature from Amazon on my Kindle so I might be putting recommended reading materials for sissies too.
Let me know what you think of my list. Any ideas about what I just must add to make a sissy happy? Once again, here is the link to the list:
Jackie's Happy Sissy List
One thing, I haven't seen a good way to find the Listmania lists at Amazon, so it may be that nobody will be able to find it while just browsing around. But at least my sissy friends and followers will be able to see it!
So thanks for reading to all of my sissy friends, I love you all so much! Until next time, enjoy (sissy) life and be Happy Sissies!
Friday, September 20, 2013
Just A Worthless Sissy? - I Don't Think So!
In the online world of sissies I come across the phrase "just a worthless sissy" a lot. Something like, "I accepted that I was just a worthless sissy," or "She tells me that I am just a worthless sissy." When I read such things I always want to say, "You may be a sissy, but you are not worthless! She needs to know that, and more importantly, you need to know that!"
First and foremost, if you are a male, and sissies are males (sad but true, I know), it still doesn't mean you have to be a man to be of value. In fact, given the damage male domination has inflicted on society in general and women in particular, I think a sissy is more valuable to society than a real man! Plus, the sissy can be even more important depending on where she lives. For instance, every sissy living in a strict, male-dominated society such as India, Saudi Arabia, Egypt, Indonesia, or the Philippines (all places from which I know sissies) is critical in spreading the cause of feminization.
I understand that the "worthless sissy" sentiment might be a natural response. Natural to a wife that has discovered her husband, someone she formally regarded as masculine, dressed up in lingerie and masturbating into panties. She feels shocked and betrayed, remembers the nagging, unspoken questions that lurk in her mind, "Why doesn't he express the interest in sex that he used to? Why, when we do have sex, is his energy and endurance always so low? Where did those panties under the bed come from?" Suddenly her questions are answered and the image of her husband shatters as she catches him dressed up and cumming in a pair of panties. "I thought I was married to a man but now I find out he's just a worthless sissy!" Who can blame her if this is her first reaction?
The "worthless sissy" sentiment might even come from a sissy herself, a sissy raised with society's ideal of what a "real man" should be, but who can't live up to it. He tries, sometimes even throwing away every item of female clothes he has been hiding, but he just can't do it. Soon he finds himself dressed up in pretty lingerie, panties soaked again. A male in this situation might think, "I tried to be a real man, but I just can't. I guess I'm just a worthless sissy!"
These reactions may be understandable, but there is just one problem... they are wrong! Hopefully the wife will read my series about what a woman should do if she catches her man in panties (Caught Your Husband in Panties?). If she does, she will see that finding out she has a sissy hubby is the best thing that could happen! How worthless will she think her sissy is when she is inspecting her spotless kitchen as the sissy stands by, eyes down? When she realizes that she is a queen in her home and her word is law? When it really sinks in that she can have any kind of marriage she wants? If the woman will take charge, be patient and understanding, and shape the sissy to her will, she will see that a sissy is far from worthless.
And if you are a sissy and ever find yourself thinking that you are "just a worthless sissy," well stop! Do not purge. Do not throw your sissy treasures away, it won't help. Sissy things are not what make you a sissy. You will still be a sissy after the things are gone and soon you will be buying more. If you feel worthless, find a way to be a better sissy! Practice your makeup, clean the bathroom, buy some nice panties, you can always do something to make yourself into a happy sissy.
Above all just remember, in this rough, male-dominated (for now) world, the sissy may not be the "average male," but she is the average male of the future, feminized world. Today's sissy is ahead of her time, less common and more special, and far more valuable as a result.
So sissies, hold you head up and be proud! Unless, that is, you are standing before your Mistress, in which case you should probably keep your eyes down... but be proud! Sissies are not worthless at all!
So thanks again for reading. Get in touch in any of the usual ways. Leave a comment if you feel like it. Link my blog in your blog and I will return the favor. And above all (you know it's coming)... be Happy Sissies!
First and foremost, if you are a male, and sissies are males (sad but true, I know), it still doesn't mean you have to be a man to be of value. In fact, given the damage male domination has inflicted on society in general and women in particular, I think a sissy is more valuable to society than a real man! Plus, the sissy can be even more important depending on where she lives. For instance, every sissy living in a strict, male-dominated society such as India, Saudi Arabia, Egypt, Indonesia, or the Philippines (all places from which I know sissies) is critical in spreading the cause of feminization.
I understand that the "worthless sissy" sentiment might be a natural response. Natural to a wife that has discovered her husband, someone she formally regarded as masculine, dressed up in lingerie and masturbating into panties. She feels shocked and betrayed, remembers the nagging, unspoken questions that lurk in her mind, "Why doesn't he express the interest in sex that he used to? Why, when we do have sex, is his energy and endurance always so low? Where did those panties under the bed come from?" Suddenly her questions are answered and the image of her husband shatters as she catches him dressed up and cumming in a pair of panties. "I thought I was married to a man but now I find out he's just a worthless sissy!" Who can blame her if this is her first reaction?
The "worthless sissy" sentiment might even come from a sissy herself, a sissy raised with society's ideal of what a "real man" should be, but who can't live up to it. He tries, sometimes even throwing away every item of female clothes he has been hiding, but he just can't do it. Soon he finds himself dressed up in pretty lingerie, panties soaked again. A male in this situation might think, "I tried to be a real man, but I just can't. I guess I'm just a worthless sissy!"
These reactions may be understandable, but there is just one problem... they are wrong! Hopefully the wife will read my series about what a woman should do if she catches her man in panties (Caught Your Husband in Panties?). If she does, she will see that finding out she has a sissy hubby is the best thing that could happen! How worthless will she think her sissy is when she is inspecting her spotless kitchen as the sissy stands by, eyes down? When she realizes that she is a queen in her home and her word is law? When it really sinks in that she can have any kind of marriage she wants? If the woman will take charge, be patient and understanding, and shape the sissy to her will, she will see that a sissy is far from worthless.
And if you are a sissy and ever find yourself thinking that you are "just a worthless sissy," well stop! Do not purge. Do not throw your sissy treasures away, it won't help. Sissy things are not what make you a sissy. You will still be a sissy after the things are gone and soon you will be buying more. If you feel worthless, find a way to be a better sissy! Practice your makeup, clean the bathroom, buy some nice panties, you can always do something to make yourself into a happy sissy.
Above all just remember, in this rough, male-dominated (for now) world, the sissy may not be the "average male," but she is the average male of the future, feminized world. Today's sissy is ahead of her time, less common and more special, and far more valuable as a result.
So sissies, hold you head up and be proud! Unless, that is, you are standing before your Mistress, in which case you should probably keep your eyes down... but be proud! Sissies are not worthless at all!
So thanks again for reading. Get in touch in any of the usual ways. Leave a comment if you feel like it. Link my blog in your blog and I will return the favor. And above all (you know it's coming)... be Happy Sissies!
Friday, August 23, 2013
Panties Reviewed on Amazon.com - Sissy Review Takes the Top Spot!
Good news sissies, my sissy-oriented review of my beloved Vanity Fair Lace Nouveau panties at Amazon.com is now the most prominent review on the product page! With twelve people, undoubtedly mostly sissies, rating the review as "helpful" it has moved to the top of the stack. You can see it here:
Vanity Fair Lace Nouveau panties
Thanks to all of you sissies that rated the review! I think there were only two "helpfuls" when I posted that blog entry. If you check out the page you will see that the next review after mine also has twelve "helpfuls" so we barely passed it, in fact it is a tie.
If any sissy (or anybody else for that matter!) has an Amazon account and has not rated the review as "helpful" it would be a great help if you could add your vote. You could help make sure an open, honest and most importantly, un-apologetically sissy review of these panties remains at the top for all to see.
If you want to join the fun, post some of our own sissy reviews of this or any other feminine product and let your sissy sisses know so we can rate them up. Soon all the sissy perspectives popping up will show people, especially women, that sissies are among them! And, as sissies, isn't that right where we want to be, among the women? Hehehe...
Thanks for reading and get in touch through the comments or the various other ways available. And most of all, be Happy Sissies!
Friday, July 19, 2013
Feminization Technique ala Miss Barbara - How She Tamed Her Sissy's Naughty Habit
I was just reflecting on the wisdom of Miss Barbara and the effectiveness of one of her techniques from my early sissy training. The problem she faced was my inappropriate and irresponsible masturbation. Miss Barbara allowed me such things as wearing panties, wearing nighties to bed, and doing household chores dressed in a maid outfit when she was away from home. The trouble was, she continued to find inappropriate porn and worse, catch me by surprise in the act of masturbating to material that was not proper for a sissy. What was a beginning Mistress to do with her undisciplined fledgling sissy?
The answer she came up with, possibly with help from her mother, Miss Carolyn, was something I call "enforced proper masturbation." The problem as she identified it was this: Dressing up was sexually stimulating and I was tempted to masturbate as soon as I was left alone. Even worse, I would habitually use heterosexual man-on-woman pornography of a kind that is not appropriate for a sissy to be viewing. Her strategy for controlling the problem was to break the cycle.
I still remember the first time she used the technique. She had me sit on the couch and she told me that she was going shopping for a while. She told me to get dressed up because she had some chores for me. I was to have them done before she got home, and remain dressed until she approved my work. I was excited because I thought I would be masturbating soon. She seemed to read my mind and told me that she wanted me working, not "jacking off to some kind of porn." I told her that of course I was going to work and not jack off, but I knew it was a lie.
"I know," she said, "because you are going to do it now before I go." I was thrown off guard by that and asked what she meant. She said that to help me resist temptation I would masturbate, under supervision, before she left the house. "Right now, right in your panties." She had me take everything off except my panties and do it right there on the couch, while she was getting ready. She clinically observed as I finished, wetting my panties as she had said. "Good sissy. Now go get dressed so I can go."
All of a sudden I wasn't sure I wanted to dress up and clean house. But I knew I had to, otherwise she would think that the only reason I dressed up was for the sexual thrill. I shoved my leaky, wet little thing into my messy panties and went to the bedroom to get dressed. When I came back down the hall in my maid dress, complete with a full slip, girdle, tights and sensible shoes, I wasn't sexually excited. In fact, I felt embarrassed and emasculated.
Miss Barbara gave her approval of my outfit, the list of chores, and off she went shopping. I did the chores thoroughly and efficiently, was not tempted to masturbate, and felt more demaled than ever when she got home and had to approve my work before I could change back to male clothes.
In other words, her technique worked like a charm! Over the years she used this technique with many variations to gain control of my masturbation addiction and direct my energies into becoming a better sissy. It taught me that the purpose of dressing up was not for sexual excitement, but because I was a sissy! It also redirected my tastes in porn to areas more appropriate for the sissy.
I'm not sure if this is the first article in a series, or just a stand-alone. Either way, thanks for reading! And stay Happy Sissies!
The answer she came up with, possibly with help from her mother, Miss Carolyn, was something I call "enforced proper masturbation." The problem as she identified it was this: Dressing up was sexually stimulating and I was tempted to masturbate as soon as I was left alone. Even worse, I would habitually use heterosexual man-on-woman pornography of a kind that is not appropriate for a sissy to be viewing. Her strategy for controlling the problem was to break the cycle.
I still remember the first time she used the technique. She had me sit on the couch and she told me that she was going shopping for a while. She told me to get dressed up because she had some chores for me. I was to have them done before she got home, and remain dressed until she approved my work. I was excited because I thought I would be masturbating soon. She seemed to read my mind and told me that she wanted me working, not "jacking off to some kind of porn." I told her that of course I was going to work and not jack off, but I knew it was a lie.
"I know," she said, "because you are going to do it now before I go." I was thrown off guard by that and asked what she meant. She said that to help me resist temptation I would masturbate, under supervision, before she left the house. "Right now, right in your panties." She had me take everything off except my panties and do it right there on the couch, while she was getting ready. She clinically observed as I finished, wetting my panties as she had said. "Good sissy. Now go get dressed so I can go."
All of a sudden I wasn't sure I wanted to dress up and clean house. But I knew I had to, otherwise she would think that the only reason I dressed up was for the sexual thrill. I shoved my leaky, wet little thing into my messy panties and went to the bedroom to get dressed. When I came back down the hall in my maid dress, complete with a full slip, girdle, tights and sensible shoes, I wasn't sexually excited. In fact, I felt embarrassed and emasculated.
Miss Barbara gave her approval of my outfit, the list of chores, and off she went shopping. I did the chores thoroughly and efficiently, was not tempted to masturbate, and felt more demaled than ever when she got home and had to approve my work before I could change back to male clothes.
In other words, her technique worked like a charm! Over the years she used this technique with many variations to gain control of my masturbation addiction and direct my energies into becoming a better sissy. It taught me that the purpose of dressing up was not for sexual excitement, but because I was a sissy! It also redirected my tastes in porn to areas more appropriate for the sissy.
I'm not sure if this is the first article in a series, or just a stand-alone. Either way, thanks for reading! And stay Happy Sissies!
Saturday, June 29, 2013
Panties Reviewed on Amazon.com - The Sissy Perspective
You may know from prior posts that the Vanity Fair Lace Nouveau Brief is my favorite kind of panties. They are comfy and well-fitting and best of all, when you buy them at the store, there is no doubt that you are buying them for yourself. No man buys a woman panties like the Lace Nouveau brief.
Anyway, I posted a review of the Vanity Fair Lace Nouveau Brief at Amazon.com. If you check it out you will see that the review was unabashedly from the sissy perspective. I mean, it's titled, "Great panties for the sissy!" after all. Here is the link to the Vanity Fair Lace Nouveau Brief product page:
Vanity Fair Lace Nouveau Brief
Currently, I see my review as the second one down the right-hand column. Here's a link to the review:
Jackie Sissy's Lace Nouveau review
In the review I bring up both sissies in panties, and women putting their men in panties. What do you think? Does that help raise the visibility of sissies and superior women? If you think so, be sure to click the "Yes" button for "Was this review helpful?" If enough people tag it as "helpful" it will move into an even more visible place on the product page.
Even better, after you click "Yes" on my review, post a review of your own for these panties, or another product (nightie, bra, etc.) from the sissy perspective. If you do, be sure to let me know and I'll rate your review!
Thanks for reading. Have fun, and always be Happy Sissies!
Jackie (the Happy Sissy!)
Anyway, I posted a review of the Vanity Fair Lace Nouveau Brief at Amazon.com. If you check it out you will see that the review was unabashedly from the sissy perspective. I mean, it's titled, "Great panties for the sissy!" after all. Here is the link to the Vanity Fair Lace Nouveau Brief product page:
Vanity Fair Lace Nouveau Brief
Currently, I see my review as the second one down the right-hand column. Here's a link to the review:
Jackie Sissy's Lace Nouveau review
In the review I bring up both sissies in panties, and women putting their men in panties. What do you think? Does that help raise the visibility of sissies and superior women? If you think so, be sure to click the "Yes" button for "Was this review helpful?" If enough people tag it as "helpful" it will move into an even more visible place on the product page.
Even better, after you click "Yes" on my review, post a review of your own for these panties, or another product (nightie, bra, etc.) from the sissy perspective. If you do, be sure to let me know and I'll rate your review!
Thanks for reading. Have fun, and always be Happy Sissies!
Jackie (the Happy Sissy!)
Wednesday, June 5, 2013
The Feminization of Society Part 5 - What Is A Sissy To Do?
Feminine influence is increasing in all areas of society. Among the reasons for this are women increasingly becoming better educated than men and taking positions of authority in government and business, and traditional men being less equipped to excel in the modern world. We could soon see the onset of active feminization policies that will reshape society. How might the sissy fit into a feminized world? Is there anything the individual sissy can do to advance the coming matriarchy? These questions are what I want to talk about in this, the last entry in my series on the feminization of society.
As you might guess, sissies are perfectly suited for feminized society. We already regard women to be superior and are willing to submit to their authority in the household. We should be willing to do so in business as well. As society becomes feminized, powerful and influential women will see the value of submissive males as subordinates. Masculine, "alpha males" will be seen as disruptive and uncooperative liabilities. Males displaying feminine inclinations will be recognized as non-threatening and pliable assets.
Meanwhile, back at home, this generation of educated, powerful and ambitious women will learn to value a partner that assumes a role traditionally reserved for women, that of "housewife." After a time, she will likely come to demand it. In a society where active feminization is the norm, these women will bring it into the home and begin feminizing their partners to prepare them for the role of "housewife." Sissies are ready to assume this role with minimal friction.
As women become more powerful in their public and social lives, they will naturally extend displays of power and control into their private lives. A submissive and disciplined domestic partner may well become a status symbol and feminization is the perfect symbol of discipline. In addition, displays of control, such as enforced chastity and of power, such as regular pegging, seem destined to become much more common. Here again, we see that the sissy is ready-made to fit into the coming matriarchy.
How can sissies help to bring about the matriarchy? The best way I can think of is visibility. The more women are struck by the realization that a male is a sissy, like when she sees him buying panties that no man would buy for a woman, the more she feels her growing influence and power. When she tells her friends, "Guess what I saw today?" the feeling spreads. If one of those friends confides, "Well, my husband is in panties all the time, and he is totally devoted to me!" the more women think to themselves that it might be a good idea for their hubbies.
Sissies can create profiles on Victoria's Secret, Amazon or department store sites and write sissy-centric reviews of panties, bras, nighties, dresses, makeup... any traditionally feminine products. Other sissies can comment on the reviews or mark them as "helpful" to increase their visibility (my next blog post will show an example of this).
If possible, sissies can "come out" to their wives, girlfriends, or dates. The more adventurous among us can go out dressed up in our sissy best. Even wearing a bra under a t shirt can raise sissy visibility in a subtle way. The important thing is that every little bit helps. I would note here that some might object to sissies "imposing their fetish on unwilling bystanders." My answer to that is that you, as a sissy, have every right to be yourself, just like anybody else, as long as you are not unnecessarily blatant about it.
So, to finish up my series on the feminization of society I ask, do you have any other ideas about how sissies can help bring about the coming matriarchy? I would love to hear them! Let me know in the comments or through any of the several ways I can be contacted. And once again, thanks for reading and be happy sissies!
As you might guess, sissies are perfectly suited for feminized society. We already regard women to be superior and are willing to submit to their authority in the household. We should be willing to do so in business as well. As society becomes feminized, powerful and influential women will see the value of submissive males as subordinates. Masculine, "alpha males" will be seen as disruptive and uncooperative liabilities. Males displaying feminine inclinations will be recognized as non-threatening and pliable assets.
Meanwhile, back at home, this generation of educated, powerful and ambitious women will learn to value a partner that assumes a role traditionally reserved for women, that of "housewife." After a time, she will likely come to demand it. In a society where active feminization is the norm, these women will bring it into the home and begin feminizing their partners to prepare them for the role of "housewife." Sissies are ready to assume this role with minimal friction.
As women become more powerful in their public and social lives, they will naturally extend displays of power and control into their private lives. A submissive and disciplined domestic partner may well become a status symbol and feminization is the perfect symbol of discipline. In addition, displays of control, such as enforced chastity and of power, such as regular pegging, seem destined to become much more common. Here again, we see that the sissy is ready-made to fit into the coming matriarchy.
How can sissies help to bring about the matriarchy? The best way I can think of is visibility. The more women are struck by the realization that a male is a sissy, like when she sees him buying panties that no man would buy for a woman, the more she feels her growing influence and power. When she tells her friends, "Guess what I saw today?" the feeling spreads. If one of those friends confides, "Well, my husband is in panties all the time, and he is totally devoted to me!" the more women think to themselves that it might be a good idea for their hubbies.
Sissies can create profiles on Victoria's Secret, Amazon or department store sites and write sissy-centric reviews of panties, bras, nighties, dresses, makeup... any traditionally feminine products. Other sissies can comment on the reviews or mark them as "helpful" to increase their visibility (my next blog post will show an example of this).
If possible, sissies can "come out" to their wives, girlfriends, or dates. The more adventurous among us can go out dressed up in our sissy best. Even wearing a bra under a t shirt can raise sissy visibility in a subtle way. The important thing is that every little bit helps. I would note here that some might object to sissies "imposing their fetish on unwilling bystanders." My answer to that is that you, as a sissy, have every right to be yourself, just like anybody else, as long as you are not unnecessarily blatant about it.
So, to finish up my series on the feminization of society I ask, do you have any other ideas about how sissies can help bring about the coming matriarchy? I would love to hear them! Let me know in the comments or through any of the several ways I can be contacted. And once again, thanks for reading and be happy sissies!
Thursday, April 25, 2013
The Feminization of Society Part 4 - Obstacles to Feminization as Social Policy
So far in this series I have talked about the increasing rate of the feminization of society, why it is a good thing, why feminization should be an explicit social policy, and some examples of how it might be integrated into culture. I think social feminization is the wave of the future, but that doesn't mean there won't be resistance to bringing it about. I'm sure that most if not all sissies would be happy to see feminization as social policy now, but otherwise, what's holding up progress? Well, I can think of several obstacles, but I also see their limitations.
First and foremost is, of course, men. Men have been in control of society for a long time. Men are still in control of the most important aspects of most societies. It took a long time to pry the right to vote from exclusively male hands. It took a long time to get to the point where women were not considered the property of men. Even today many men are not comfortable with a female boss or commander. Attitudes are changing but you can be sure that men will resist the feminization of society.
Another obstacle to feminization as social policy is, oddly enough, women. Even in today's society many women are instilled with the impression that they need a man to complete them. Whether perceived as a provider, for protection, or any number of roles, women are still too often willing to give up their autonomy for the sake of a man. This state of affairs is changing rapidly as feminization advances but it is likely that there will always be resistance from women that desire the comfort of more traditional roles.
There is also the issue of the rate of the adoption of feminization by various societies. Whereas feminization is well in progress and accelerating in the Western world, many less advanced societies have far to go. This is especially true of societies that are governed according to religious principles, in particular Islam. Women in these societies have to overcome obstacles that are almost unimaginable to us. They are denied such basics as voting, education, and driving. They often don't have autonomy, much less equality. But even here there is hope. For instance, Pakistan once had a female prime minister. However, she was assassinated by radical Muslims.
These are just a few examples of sources of resistance to feminization of human society the world over. I think the trend to feminization is unstoppable and accelerating, but it is unlikely to ever be complete. There will always be "manly men" for whom feminization does not take effect. There will always be women who desire the more traditional relationship between the sexes. There will always be male-dominated social structures that resist the loss of power and influence.
And the truth is, this is okay. There is room for all of these things. The important thing is the balance of power within the culture in which they exist. Men have their uses, as long as they are ultimately under feminine authority. Women can have a traditional relationship with a man, both knowing that the nature of the relationship is directed by the woman. Male-dominated social structures can exist within the larger feminized society, but have no influence outside of their limited domain. We can all live together in a society guided by feminine ideals.
Next time I want to conclude this series by bringing things back around to sissies, feminized males. After all, sissies are my main audience! We will talk about how sissies fit into feminized society and how we can help to bring it about. So once again, thanks again for reading! If you get a chance, give a shout (but a suitably restrained, feminine one) through the comments, by email, at Experience Project, or in Club Sissy or Yahoo Messenger chat. Above all, be like me... a Happy Sissy!
First and foremost is, of course, men. Men have been in control of society for a long time. Men are still in control of the most important aspects of most societies. It took a long time to pry the right to vote from exclusively male hands. It took a long time to get to the point where women were not considered the property of men. Even today many men are not comfortable with a female boss or commander. Attitudes are changing but you can be sure that men will resist the feminization of society.
Another obstacle to feminization as social policy is, oddly enough, women. Even in today's society many women are instilled with the impression that they need a man to complete them. Whether perceived as a provider, for protection, or any number of roles, women are still too often willing to give up their autonomy for the sake of a man. This state of affairs is changing rapidly as feminization advances but it is likely that there will always be resistance from women that desire the comfort of more traditional roles.
There is also the issue of the rate of the adoption of feminization by various societies. Whereas feminization is well in progress and accelerating in the Western world, many less advanced societies have far to go. This is especially true of societies that are governed according to religious principles, in particular Islam. Women in these societies have to overcome obstacles that are almost unimaginable to us. They are denied such basics as voting, education, and driving. They often don't have autonomy, much less equality. But even here there is hope. For instance, Pakistan once had a female prime minister. However, she was assassinated by radical Muslims.
These are just a few examples of sources of resistance to feminization of human society the world over. I think the trend to feminization is unstoppable and accelerating, but it is unlikely to ever be complete. There will always be "manly men" for whom feminization does not take effect. There will always be women who desire the more traditional relationship between the sexes. There will always be male-dominated social structures that resist the loss of power and influence.
And the truth is, this is okay. There is room for all of these things. The important thing is the balance of power within the culture in which they exist. Men have their uses, as long as they are ultimately under feminine authority. Women can have a traditional relationship with a man, both knowing that the nature of the relationship is directed by the woman. Male-dominated social structures can exist within the larger feminized society, but have no influence outside of their limited domain. We can all live together in a society guided by feminine ideals.
Next time I want to conclude this series by bringing things back around to sissies, feminized males. After all, sissies are my main audience! We will talk about how sissies fit into feminized society and how we can help to bring it about. So once again, thanks again for reading! If you get a chance, give a shout (but a suitably restrained, feminine one) through the comments, by email, at Experience Project, or in Club Sissy or Yahoo Messenger chat. Above all, be like me... a Happy Sissy!
Wednesday, April 3, 2013
The Feminization of Society Part 3 - Explicit Feminization for the Benefit of Society
In the prior articles of this series I talked about my view that our society is becoming feminized, that the rate of feminization is increasing, and why this is a good thing. Now I want to float some ideas about how explicit feminization might be used to shape the society of the future.
What do I mean by "explicit feminization?" Well, until now the feminization of society has proceeded in an implicit fashion. It has been a natural, organic evolution as opposed to a purposeful, designed policy. For instance, women gaining the right to vote is not generally seen as a step in the feminization of society. Nevertheless, that is exactly what it is, an important and necessary step. The same can be said about women entering the workforce, gaining advanced educations, and assuming positions of authority in business and government. These milestones have advanced society and benefited its members. Upon this realization, it obviously follows that feminization should be official social policy. The word "explicit" means "fully and clearly expressed; leaving nothing implied." Feminization clearly expressed as social policy is what I mean by "explicit feminization."
How can explicit feminization be implemented as social policy? Let's start with the example of crime. As I mentioned, the prison population of the United States has nine men for every one woman. Clearly, criminals should be feminized in order to reduce recidivism. Feminization should not be viewed as punishment for crime, but as required therapy for criminals. A few ideas: Prisons could be redecorated using color schemes heavy on pinks and pastels. Prison garb could consist of pretty dresses and panties. A prisoner's diet could include testosterone-reducing and estrogen- and progesterone-boosting medications. Sentences could be reduced not for good behavior, but for feminine behavior. The possibilities are endless and new methods and ideas would be developed over time.
But for the greatest benefit to society, feminization should be the norm, not just an exception used in special cases. Based on the idea that femininity is superior and masculinity is dangerous, feminization should be interwoven throughout society. During childhood, babies might all be dressed in pink; it would be common for boys to wear dresses, nighties, and pretty panties; being called a sissy would carry no negative connotations but be a point of pride. In adolescence, girls might regularly dress up their boyfriends; boys would regularly dress up themselves, and not be shy about going to school or anywhere else in dresses; boys could be cheerleaders and wear short skirts just like the girls; football would fade into memory as a violet, masculine pastime; it would be common for couples attending proms and dances to wear matching gowns.
Continuing into adulthood, explicit feminization would leave no doubt that femininity is the ideal and masculinity is an almost primitive state. By extension, there would also be no doubt about who leads and shapes society: women. Males, via feminization, would simply be reflecting the feminine ideal. Women would control how much and when they wanted to feminize their men. At their discretion, they could even use estrogen boosters or testosterone blockers as they saw fit. As feminization spread worldwide, crime would plummet and war would fade into the past as would other masculine pursuits.
I have no illusions that feminization as explicit social policy will even come to pass in the near future, much less achieve the levels outlined here. But I do think it is the way of advanced societies as the future becomes the present. Next time, I want to talk about some of the obstacles to feminization as social policy and why I think these obstacles will be overcome.
Until then (and I will try to make it sooner this time), thanks again for reading! Get in contact through the comments, by email, at Experience Project, or in Club Sissy or Yahoo Messenger chat and let me know what you think. I always love hearing from my sissy friends.
What do I mean by "explicit feminization?" Well, until now the feminization of society has proceeded in an implicit fashion. It has been a natural, organic evolution as opposed to a purposeful, designed policy. For instance, women gaining the right to vote is not generally seen as a step in the feminization of society. Nevertheless, that is exactly what it is, an important and necessary step. The same can be said about women entering the workforce, gaining advanced educations, and assuming positions of authority in business and government. These milestones have advanced society and benefited its members. Upon this realization, it obviously follows that feminization should be official social policy. The word "explicit" means "fully and clearly expressed; leaving nothing implied." Feminization clearly expressed as social policy is what I mean by "explicit feminization."
How can explicit feminization be implemented as social policy? Let's start with the example of crime. As I mentioned, the prison population of the United States has nine men for every one woman. Clearly, criminals should be feminized in order to reduce recidivism. Feminization should not be viewed as punishment for crime, but as required therapy for criminals. A few ideas: Prisons could be redecorated using color schemes heavy on pinks and pastels. Prison garb could consist of pretty dresses and panties. A prisoner's diet could include testosterone-reducing and estrogen- and progesterone-boosting medications. Sentences could be reduced not for good behavior, but for feminine behavior. The possibilities are endless and new methods and ideas would be developed over time.
But for the greatest benefit to society, feminization should be the norm, not just an exception used in special cases. Based on the idea that femininity is superior and masculinity is dangerous, feminization should be interwoven throughout society. During childhood, babies might all be dressed in pink; it would be common for boys to wear dresses, nighties, and pretty panties; being called a sissy would carry no negative connotations but be a point of pride. In adolescence, girls might regularly dress up their boyfriends; boys would regularly dress up themselves, and not be shy about going to school or anywhere else in dresses; boys could be cheerleaders and wear short skirts just like the girls; football would fade into memory as a violet, masculine pastime; it would be common for couples attending proms and dances to wear matching gowns.
Continuing into adulthood, explicit feminization would leave no doubt that femininity is the ideal and masculinity is an almost primitive state. By extension, there would also be no doubt about who leads and shapes society: women. Males, via feminization, would simply be reflecting the feminine ideal. Women would control how much and when they wanted to feminize their men. At their discretion, they could even use estrogen boosters or testosterone blockers as they saw fit. As feminization spread worldwide, crime would plummet and war would fade into the past as would other masculine pursuits.
I have no illusions that feminization as explicit social policy will even come to pass in the near future, much less achieve the levels outlined here. But I do think it is the way of advanced societies as the future becomes the present. Next time, I want to talk about some of the obstacles to feminization as social policy and why I think these obstacles will be overcome.
Until then (and I will try to make it sooner this time), thanks again for reading! Get in contact through the comments, by email, at Experience Project, or in Club Sissy or Yahoo Messenger chat and let me know what you think. I always love hearing from my sissy friends.
Monday, February 25, 2013
The Feminization of Society Part 2 - How Feminization Creates a Better World
Like I said in the prior article of this series, the feminization of society has been in progress for a while now and in my opinion the rate of feminization is increasing. Why is this a good thing for society? And, if feminization is such a good thing, how can we accelerate it and put it to use for the benefit of society?
In truth, I doubt that I need to spend a lot of time going over the benefits of a feminized society in detail. For most who might read this, it is as simple as the fact that we consider women to be superior to men, sissy or otherwise. And if women are superior, then a feminized society is self-evidently superior to one where masculine traits rule. With that in mind, I just want to hit on a few main points.
The first is crime. Men commit far more crimes of all kinds than women do. The prison population of the United States is weighted toward men by a factor of nine to one! Obviously the more feminized a society becomes, the more beneficial the effect will be on the crime rate. Perhaps this can be seen in the fact that the rates for almost all types of crimes have been declining for the past few decades, the very time period that the feminization rate of society has been increasing.
Another is war. Violence and territoriality are quintessentially masculine traits. When these attributes are implemented on a societal level they naturally and often lead to conflict between societies. Nurturing, negotiation and cooperation are most often thought of as feminine attributes. On a societal level, these lead to conflict resolution, peace, and advancement for all sides in situations that might otherwise escalate into conflict. As the feminization of society penetrates the area of government, which I expect to happen as the higher education rate for women proceeds, I fully expect that incidents of conflicts between societies will decrease.
And lastly, the status of women. The impression that women are inferior to men is happily no longer overt in advanced societies in general. But a residual undercurrent is still there. This can easily be seen in the different reactions to little girls that are "boyish" and little boys that are "girly." Boyish girls are called "tomboys" and the term carries no negative connotations. However, girly boys are called "sissies" and the term is almost always used in a derogatory way. This impression is inflicted on children and continues, at least at a subconscious level, into adulthood, where it might be manifested in any number of attitudes or actions. In a fully feminized society, this would not, and will not, be the case.
These are just a few of the benefits that feminization has for society in general. Next time I want to talk about how feminization of society might be accelerated and how feminization techniques can be used to make improvements in everybody's lives here and now.
Once again, thanks so much for reading! Let me know of your thoughts in the comments, by email, at Experience Project, or in Club Sissy or Yahoo Messenger chat.
In truth, I doubt that I need to spend a lot of time going over the benefits of a feminized society in detail. For most who might read this, it is as simple as the fact that we consider women to be superior to men, sissy or otherwise. And if women are superior, then a feminized society is self-evidently superior to one where masculine traits rule. With that in mind, I just want to hit on a few main points.
The first is crime. Men commit far more crimes of all kinds than women do. The prison population of the United States is weighted toward men by a factor of nine to one! Obviously the more feminized a society becomes, the more beneficial the effect will be on the crime rate. Perhaps this can be seen in the fact that the rates for almost all types of crimes have been declining for the past few decades, the very time period that the feminization rate of society has been increasing.
Another is war. Violence and territoriality are quintessentially masculine traits. When these attributes are implemented on a societal level they naturally and often lead to conflict between societies. Nurturing, negotiation and cooperation are most often thought of as feminine attributes. On a societal level, these lead to conflict resolution, peace, and advancement for all sides in situations that might otherwise escalate into conflict. As the feminization of society penetrates the area of government, which I expect to happen as the higher education rate for women proceeds, I fully expect that incidents of conflicts between societies will decrease.
And lastly, the status of women. The impression that women are inferior to men is happily no longer overt in advanced societies in general. But a residual undercurrent is still there. This can easily be seen in the different reactions to little girls that are "boyish" and little boys that are "girly." Boyish girls are called "tomboys" and the term carries no negative connotations. However, girly boys are called "sissies" and the term is almost always used in a derogatory way. This impression is inflicted on children and continues, at least at a subconscious level, into adulthood, where it might be manifested in any number of attitudes or actions. In a fully feminized society, this would not, and will not, be the case.
These are just a few of the benefits that feminization has for society in general. Next time I want to talk about how feminization of society might be accelerated and how feminization techniques can be used to make improvements in everybody's lives here and now.
Once again, thanks so much for reading! Let me know of your thoughts in the comments, by email, at Experience Project, or in Club Sissy or Yahoo Messenger chat.
Friday, February 8, 2013
The Feminization of Society Part 1 - What is Societal Feminization?
Lately I have been thinking a lot about something that I think is important to the well-being of civilization: the feminization of society. In this series I want to ponder various aspects of societal feminization, what it is, why I consider it to be important, the progress of feminization and my impression that is accelerating. I also want to suggest that sissies, beyond just participating in, can and should play a larger role in the feminization of society.
What do I mean by "feminization of society?" Basically that, when a society that is undergoing feminization, the feminine influence is on the ascendancy and masculine influence is declining. Feminization of a society takes place from two ends of a spectrum. On one end is the empowerment of women. And on the other, the "depowerment" of men.
I consider the feminization of Western society to be well under way. It started slowly, has suffered setbacks, but has been accelerating in recent years. Women had been fighting for the vote and the ability to run for office long before August of 1920, but that is when the 19th Amendment was passed, and it seems as good a time as any to be considered the beginning of the feminization of American society. The changes since then have been nothing short of revolutionary.
Women used to be "second class citizens," subject to the will of men, economically dependent, absent from the workplace or in subservient positions, undereducated and considered adept only at housekeeping and mothering. Now women are fully integrated into society, often completely independent of any man, make up over half of the workforce, and are gaining college degrees at a much higher rate than men. On the "feminization of society spectrum" that I mentioned earlier, this is the "empowerment of women" side. I am not saying that the process is complete, but the change in the balance of power has been profound.
The education aspect is especially significant. Today, over sixty percent of college degrees go to women. If the trends keep up, two out of three or even more will go to women in the near future. This is critical because these educated women will be the workplace superiors of their less-educated male peers. Women will soon run the major businesses and corporations, not to mention the government, if this trend keeps up. This change will be the major contributor to the "depowerment of men" end of the societal feminization spectrum.
So you see, the feminization of society is well underway and shows no signs of slowing. In fact, there is every reason to believe that it will accelerate as educated women assume positions of power in the coming years. Next time I want to talk more about why the feminization of society is important on my way to ultimately tying sissies into the overall trend toward feminization and our role in it.
Thanks for reading and hope to see you again soon! Until then, here is a great article on the decline of men and the ascendency of women:
The End of Men
What do I mean by "feminization of society?" Basically that, when a society that is undergoing feminization, the feminine influence is on the ascendancy and masculine influence is declining. Feminization of a society takes place from two ends of a spectrum. On one end is the empowerment of women. And on the other, the "depowerment" of men.
I consider the feminization of Western society to be well under way. It started slowly, has suffered setbacks, but has been accelerating in recent years. Women had been fighting for the vote and the ability to run for office long before August of 1920, but that is when the 19th Amendment was passed, and it seems as good a time as any to be considered the beginning of the feminization of American society. The changes since then have been nothing short of revolutionary.
Women used to be "second class citizens," subject to the will of men, economically dependent, absent from the workplace or in subservient positions, undereducated and considered adept only at housekeeping and mothering. Now women are fully integrated into society, often completely independent of any man, make up over half of the workforce, and are gaining college degrees at a much higher rate than men. On the "feminization of society spectrum" that I mentioned earlier, this is the "empowerment of women" side. I am not saying that the process is complete, but the change in the balance of power has been profound.
The education aspect is especially significant. Today, over sixty percent of college degrees go to women. If the trends keep up, two out of three or even more will go to women in the near future. This is critical because these educated women will be the workplace superiors of their less-educated male peers. Women will soon run the major businesses and corporations, not to mention the government, if this trend keeps up. This change will be the major contributor to the "depowerment of men" end of the societal feminization spectrum.
So you see, the feminization of society is well underway and shows no signs of slowing. In fact, there is every reason to believe that it will accelerate as educated women assume positions of power in the coming years. Next time I want to talk more about why the feminization of society is important on my way to ultimately tying sissies into the overall trend toward feminization and our role in it.
Thanks for reading and hope to see you again soon! Until then, here is a great article on the decline of men and the ascendency of women:
The End of Men
Saturday, January 12, 2013
The Sissy Experience Project
Hi sissies and anybody else that likes to read my Happy Sissy blog! Happy Sissy New Year!
I just wanted to make a quick post about a site that I have been having fun with lately. I also think this site is useful for spreading awareness of the sissy and female superiority lifestyle among people that are not already involved in such a lifestyle. The site is called Experience Project.
The actual link is http://www.experienceproject.com/
This is a very fun site where you can set up your sissy profile and share your sissy stories with the world. People add experiences and then tell their stories about that experience. Others can join that experience group and tell their own stories. Each group has a members list, a forum and other features for the group. For instance, a typical group is called I Am A Sissy. This group currently has 3,007 members!
There are also places where sissies and others in the feminization or female empowerment movements can interact with others who are not in related lifestyles. This has the effect of demonstrating that there are sissies and empowered women in society and that our influence is on the rise. Hopefully, some people, potential sissies, women who want to be empowered, whoever, will see the examples and become interested in the possibilities.
I encourage all my sissy friends to join the Experience Project and add me to your circle. My profile is here at Jackie's sissy profile. Once I see that I have been added to your circle I will add you to my circle and then we will be friends! And of course, a sissy can never have too many gurl friends!
If you do decide to join, be sure to send me a message and let me know. Maybe we can plan ways to expand and expose our lifestyles and philosophies beyond our own cozy little group. Together we can spread the sissy and female empowered lifestyles to new and exciting places and levels!
Thanks so much for reading and have a Happy Sissy 2013!
I just wanted to make a quick post about a site that I have been having fun with lately. I also think this site is useful for spreading awareness of the sissy and female superiority lifestyle among people that are not already involved in such a lifestyle. The site is called Experience Project.
The actual link is http://www.experienceproject.com/
This is a very fun site where you can set up your sissy profile and share your sissy stories with the world. People add experiences and then tell their stories about that experience. Others can join that experience group and tell their own stories. Each group has a members list, a forum and other features for the group. For instance, a typical group is called I Am A Sissy. This group currently has 3,007 members!
There are also places where sissies and others in the feminization or female empowerment movements can interact with others who are not in related lifestyles. This has the effect of demonstrating that there are sissies and empowered women in society and that our influence is on the rise. Hopefully, some people, potential sissies, women who want to be empowered, whoever, will see the examples and become interested in the possibilities.
I encourage all my sissy friends to join the Experience Project and add me to your circle. My profile is here at Jackie's sissy profile. Once I see that I have been added to your circle I will add you to my circle and then we will be friends! And of course, a sissy can never have too many gurl friends!
If you do decide to join, be sure to send me a message and let me know. Maybe we can plan ways to expand and expose our lifestyles and philosophies beyond our own cozy little group. Together we can spread the sissy and female empowered lifestyles to new and exciting places and levels!
Thanks so much for reading and have a Happy Sissy 2013!
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